If you’ve ever felt like entrepreneurship is a battle against fear, doubt, and burnout, this episode is for you. But what if the key to winning wasn’t about pushing harder—but shifting how you see the fight?

In this powerful conversation, Marine veteran, former police officer, TEDx speaker, and mental resilience expert Joe Smarro shares his journey from combat to crisis intervention and how he developed life-changing strategies for overcoming stress, mastering emotions, and scaling a business without losing yourself in the process.

Joe’s story proves that the most dangerous battlefield isn’t outside of us—it’s in our own minds.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How your world is a 3D print of your thoughts—and how to rewire it for success.
• The hidden addiction to distraction and why true wellness requires active pursuit.
• Why safety and security are created, not chased—and how to build them within yourself.
• How to win in business and life by focusing on the person before the problem and the connection before the correction.
• Joe’s five-step de-escalation process to improve relationships, leadership, and emotional intelligence.
• The parallel between PTSD and entrepreneurship—and how to break free from survival mode.
• Why being authentic isn’t just about “being real” but about breaking the need to people-please and owning your power.

Key Takeaways:
✔ Curiosity leads to connection—and connection builds trust, which drives real change.
✔ Entrepreneurs often sabotage themselves by chasing validation instead of real success.
✔ Boundaries are a form of self-respect—saying “no” to others means saying “yes” to yourself.
✔ True wellness isn’t a destination; it’s an active pursuit—a daily commitment to becoming your best self.
✔ De-escalation isn’t just for crisis situations—it’s a tool for building stronger relationships in business and life.

Timestamps:
[00:02:00] – Joe’s powerful backstory: From Marine combat veteran to mental resilience expert.
[00:07:30] – The hidden addiction to distraction: Why high performers struggle with fulfillment.
[00:12:00] – The false promise of “if I just get this, then I’ll be happy” & the power of active pursuit.
[00:20:00] – The reality of PTSD, trauma, and how to break free from self-sabotage.
[00:33:00] – Joe’s 5-step De-escalation Model (CCR-TC) and how it applies to business & leadership.
[00:45:00] – The importance of connection: Why customer experience is about leadership, not control.
[00:54:00] – How to reframe compliance as helping people become the person to get the result.
[01:00:00] – How Joe applies daily habits for mental wellness & resilience.

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Resources mentioned in the episode:
Book Recommendations – Unarmed by Joe Smarro & The Obstacle is the Way by Ryan Holiday
​​I See You | Joseph A. Smarro | TEDxSanAntonio
Ernie & Joe: Crisis Cops (2019): Official Trailer | HBO

Mental resilience, de-escalation training, emotional intelligence, entrepreneurship mindset, overcoming PTSD, self-sabotage, leadership strategies, personal growth, business success, trauma recovery, stress management, mental health for entrepreneurs.