In this episode of the Voice to Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, host Jocelyn Maminta sits down with Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, a clinician, coach, and expert on coercive control and narcissistic abuse. Dr. Cocchiola shares her personal journey as a survivor, highlighting the often subtle and insidious nature of coercive control in intimate relationships and systems. She explains how coercive control serves as the foundation for various forms of abuse, including emotional, physical, and systemic oppression. The discussion delves into the challenges victims face in being believed, especially in family court, and the importance of authentic connection between protective parents and their children. Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola is a clinician, coach, educator, and leading expert on coercive control and narcissistic abuse impacting both adults and children. With over three decades of experience, Christine has dedicated her career to supporting survivors of domestic violence and advocating for systemic change. As the founder of the Protective Parenting Program, she offers education and tools to parents navigating trauma and high-conflict custody situations. Driven by both professional expertise and lived experience as a survivor, Christine’s work is rooted in empowering others, fostering connection, and redefining approaches to safety and healing.

Topics Discussed:

• Definition and examples of coercive control
• Concept of oppression and loss of autonomy
• Differences between coercive control and other forms of abuse

• Trauma bonds in families and the challenge of leaving abusers
• Navigating court systems and challenges for parents
• Guidance for protective parents
• Creation and philosophy of the Protective Parenting Program
• Legislative advocacy and education
• Encouragement for survivors

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On this episode of Voice 2 Change, Jocelyn Maminta invites Dan Saban, a seasoned law enforcement professional from Arizona, to the conversation. Dan offers insights into his trailblazing work in victim advocacy, particularly his efforts to bridge gaps between law enforcement and communities. Through personal anecdotes and professional experiences, Dan discusses the evolution of handling sexual crimes and the creation of advocacy centers, providing a unique look at how specialized training in law enforcement has transformed victims' experiences. Join us for a heartfelt discussion and discover how each of us can contribute to meaningful change.

Dan Sabin, a dedicated law enforcement officer from Arizona, first encountered Donna's remarkable story on an episode of Dateline several years ago. Deeply moved by her experiences and the challenges she faced, Dan found himself empathizing with her frustrations, which mirrored some of his own experiences in law enforcement. Dan has forty years of experience serving his community and pioneered the first family advocacy center in Arizona, in 2008.

Topics Discussed:

• Dan got involved after seeing Donna's story on Dateline
• Dan shares his career in law enforcement and victim advocacy
• Emphasis on building community connections

• How victims benefit from a consolidated support system
• The importance of bringing in national experts to train law enforcement
• Developing specialized training for trauma-informed policing
• How Dan shares his expertise across the country to help other programs

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In this episode of the Voice 2 Change Podcast, our host Jocelyn Maminta interviews Dr. Shamina Aubuchon, the inspiring author of the children's book, "If You Touch, I'll Tell." Shamina, a courageous survivor of child sexual abuse, shares her journey and the powerful motivation behind becoming an author. Her book serves as an invaluable resource for educating children and parents about safety and prevention. Learn about the importance of empowering children to use their voices, the crucial role of parental guidance, and how to identify the warning signs of grooming.

Shamina Aubuchon is a dedicated advocate and author who channels her personal experiences into powerful narratives to raise awareness on sexual abuse. Born a survivor of child sexual abuse, Shamina found the courage and determination to address this pervasive problem through her writing. Shamina urges parents to discuss these uncomfortable topics and encourages children to use their voices.

Topics Discussed:

• Shamina's personal experience with child sexual abuse
• Inspiration behind writing the book
• The importance of speaking about difficult topics
• Finding the right age and methods to discuss such topics with children
• Importance of prevention, rather than cure
• Strategies for keeping children safe
• Empowering children through the book’s message
• Warning signs and behaviors to be wary of
• The importance of believing children when they disclose abuse
• Encouraging children to use their voice for protection

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Shamina's book 'If You Touch, I'll Tell'

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