In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, host Eileen Noyes sits down with Julie Sanford, creator of the Secret Struggles Summit and founder of Married to Addiction. Julie shares her journey as the wife of a recovering alcoholic and how God transformed her family's darkest moments into a mission to help other Christian women facing similar challenges. She discusses the unexpected lessons learned through her husband's eight-year sobriety journey, including the importance of focusing on personal healing instead of trying to "fix" others. The conversation explores how Julie's experience with addiction led to creating a platform supporting Christian wives of alcoholics and eventually expanding to address other "secret struggles" in marriage. Julie offers practical wisdom on setting boundaries, managing expectations during recovery, and finding an identity beyond crisis. This episode introduces the Secret Struggles Summit, bringing together 15 speakers to address topics from infidelity and addiction to faith-based guidance for troubled marriages.

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In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, host Eileen Noyes welcomes Timera LaChae', a 6'3" former basketball player turned entrepreneur with an extraordinary story of faith. Timera recounts hearing God's voice at eight years old and remaining a virgin until marriage at 28, only to face multiple betrayals in what she describes as her "Hosea assignment." She shares the moment she discovered her husband's affair with her mentee while pregnant, yet chose forgiveness over bitterness. Now, as a founder of Increase Marketing and Consulting, Timera uses her experiences to help others heal from trauma and unforgiveness. Her testimony highlights the impact of our spoken words, the critical importance of investing in children ages 1-7, and staying faithful to divine direction despite seemingly impossible circumstances. This conversation offers listeners practical wisdom about transforming pain into purpose.

In this moving episode, host Eileen welcomes former NFL wife Monique Davis Dotson for an intimate conversation about faith, healing, and transformation after divorce. With raw honesty and profound wisdom, Monique shares how a divine revelation transformed her relationship with her ex-husband from one of pain to genuine family connection, even leading to shared holidays and podcast collaborations. As two women of faith, they dive deep into the unique challenges faced by NFL wives, from maintaining identity in the spotlight to navigating life's transitions with grace. The conversation takes an inspiring turn as Monique reveals how she rebuilt her life as an entrepreneur, author, and spiritual mentor, proving that our greatest challenges can become our most powerful testimonies. Through their shared experiences, both women illuminate the path forward for others facing similar struggles, offering hope and practical wisdom for turning pain into purpose. This episode is more than just a conversation – it's a masterclass in forgiveness, resilience, and the transformative power of faith-centered healing.

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Julie Wells, wife of former Green Bay Packers center Scott Wells, opens up about her remarkable journey from being a young NFL wife with a six-month-old to navigating life with six children, including three adopted from Uganda. In a conversation with host Eileen Noyes, Julie shares how the strong support system of NFL wives in Green Bay helped her through personal losses and major life transitions, while contrasting it with the more isolated experience she faced during their final years with the St. Louis Rams. The episode takes an inspiring turn as Julie discusses their family's decision to adopt across racial lines, offering candid insights into the challenges and joys of raising biological and adopted children as teenagers in today's world. Through her reflection on marriage, faith, and personal growth, Julie reveals how she maintained her identity through eleven NFL seasons and found her own path in real estate after football. This conversation breaks down stereotypes about NFL wives while celebrating the beauty of choosing an unconventional path and embracing life's unexpected seasons.

In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, host Eileen Noyes sits down with Jessica Powell, wife of former New York Jets player Bilal Powell, as they peel back the curtain on life during and after the NFL. Jessica opens up about her nine-year journey as an NFL wife, from the initial struggles of being a young, pregnant rookie wife in an unfamiliar city to building lasting friendships in the league. She courageously shares her battle with self-image in the spotlight and the challenging transition when her husband's career ended unexpectedly. The conversation takes a turn as Jessica discusses the often-overlooked mental health challenges NFL players face after retirement and offers wisdom to young NFL wives about preparing for life after football. Now a boxing instructor and mental health advocate, Jessica’s story is a testament to finding purpose beyond the game and the importance of extending grace to both yourself and your spouse during major life transitions. This episode provides an authentic glimpse into the real lives of NFL families, far removed from the glamorized reality TV portrayals.

In this episode, Jeannie Pederson, wife of former NFL quarterback and Super Bowl-winning head coach Doug Pederson, takes us through her unexpected 30-year journey in professional football. From being a backup quarterback's wife in Green Bay to guiding coaches' wives through tough seasons in Jacksonville, Jeannie shares how she found purpose in an often-brutal NFL world. She talks about moving her family countless times, standing by her husband through both Super Bowl glory and gutting dismissals, and how faith became their rock every season. Host Eileen Noyes and Jeannie look back on their days in Green Bay's NFL wives' Bible study group, exploring how their views on marriage, motherhood, and being real have shifted over twenty years. This conversation strips away the glossy image of NFL wives, showing instead the grit it takes to build true friendships in a world of constant change and public pressure. Jeannie's hard-won wisdom on handling both victory and loss offers hope for anyone weathering life's transitions while trying to keep their faith and family strong.

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In this episode of The Unsidelined Life, host Eileen Noyes dives into five transformative strategies that helped her navigate the unique challenges of NFL wife life and the broader journey of marriage, divorce, and redemption. Drawing from her books Sidelined No More and Rise Up Lady Bellator, Eileen vulnerably shares how learning to "shut up and pray" transformed her relationships, and why forgiveness became her secret weapon for freedom. She offers profound insights into the power of words, the importance of building an authentic community, and the delicate balance between finding your voice and maintaining a gentle spirit. Whether you're a pro-athlete's wife or a woman seeking to live authentically in any season, this episode provides practical wisdom for stepping out of the shadows and into your God-given purpose. Through raw personal stories and biblical truth, Eileen demonstrates how these five spiritual weapons of warfare can help any woman move from feeling sidelined to living an empowered life of purpose.

This week, your host Eileen Noyes tackles this profound tension head-on as she shares her own struggle with promoting her work during the California wildfires. Drawing from her experiences as a former NFL wife and current faith-driven entrepreneur, Eileen delivers a powerful message about standing firm in God's promises during life's storms. She shares personal stories from her first marriage in Green Bay, including a pivotal moment when torn wedding vows rained down the stairs, and reveals how anchoring herself in God's word helped her navigate both personal and literal fires. Through vulnerable storytelling and practical spiritual advice, Eileen shows listeners how to quiet competing voices and hear God's truth clearly. This episode offers a masterclass in holding onto faith during turbulent seasons, while providing actionable strategies for praying God's promises over your life. Whether you're facing personal trials or wrestling with how to pursue your calling during difficult times, this episode might be just what you need today.