In this follow-up episode, Michael and Obasi discuss stories from their own lives in which they were forced to accept themselves for who they were, rather than who they wanted to be. Also featuring stories about Kendrick Lamar, Carl Rogers (the father of person-centered psychology), and a serial killer. Finally, they invite Quinn back to share his post-van-life reflections.

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Adam's Story

Principle of Peacemaking #7: “Pay Attention”

“Is there some value that we can connect on underneath everything – that gives us a springboard just to start a conversation that allows for mutual respect? I don’t think that everyone needs to talk to each other, but at the same time, I think more dialogue could happen.” – Adam

Adam is a friend who tells us a few stories about communication and miscommunication, understanding and misunderstanding. In each story, we grapple with what is said, done, and meant, and the three of us often come to different conclusions. This episode’s principle of peacemaking is to pay attention – to our values, our actions, and each other.

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This episode was recorded on July 5, 2022.

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Gabe's Story

Principle of Peacemaking #6: “Truth Heals”

“If you’re the victim of a terrible atrocity, you know you can’t get justice – you can’t bring back the dead. It probably helps a bit to see the people responsible suffer, but what drives you really, really crazy is the feeling that other people are not seeing or acknowledging or validating the pain, and what you’ve experienced, and especially the truth of what you’ve experienced.” – Gabe

Gabe is a law professional who tells us about his work seeking truth and reconciliation in the Solomon Islands. Gabe describes the stories he heard on his journey, and teaches us the value of witnessing others’ suffering, defining a collective truth, and being honest with ourselves, even when it hurts. Today’s principle of peacemaking?: Truth heals.

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This episode was recorded on August 10, 2022.

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