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Marrying a man of godly character sounds amazing... but how can you know if he’s actually walking the walk — not just talking the talk?

You need more than good vibes and sweet words. You need real answers to questions like:

“What kind of character does this guy really have?”
“Where does his heart stand when it comes to God’s Word?”
“Is his love for the Lord visible in his daily actions?”
“Does he truly live with Scripture as the highest authority in his life?”

In today’s episode, Kristen and Bethany get real about what it looks like to truly discern a man’s heart — so you can make wise, Christ-centered relationship decisions that stand the test of time.

GRAB THE DIGITAL GUIDE: How to Discern a Guy's True Character

*This episode originally aired as EP 159.

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Is it possible to pursue godly femininity without getting tangled in legalism, fear, or performance-driven faith?

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with best-selling author and speaker Leslie Ludy to unpack the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) ways legalism can creep into conservative Christian womanhood.

We talk about the pressure to "look the part," the danger of equating holiness with a lifestyle checklist, and how to break free from rule-based faith and walk in true intimacy with Christ.

Whether you’ve felt burdened by expectations or just want to cultivate a deeper, more authentic relationship with Jesus, this conversation will challenge, encourage, and refresh your soul.

Get ready for a grace-filled reset on what it really means to be a set-apart woman.

**We hope you enjoy this replay from episode from 181**

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You’ve seen the headlines: “Her Wildest Night Yet!” or “10 Secrets to Epic Pleasure.” Cosmo and other mainstream magazines have been feeding women these so-called empowering stories for decades. But what if those stories aren’t even real? What if they're simply propaganda?

In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the glossy lies and exposing how these narratives are shaping our view of sex, identity, and womanhood—and not for the better. God’s design for womanhood isn’t boring, outdated, or shame-filled—but actually freeing, fulfilling, and rooted in truth.

Sister, you don’t have to chase culture’s version of empowerment. Let’s discover how to walk confidently in real freedom, defined by God—not Cosmo.

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