Welcome to Brave Your Story - The Coach Within, the podcast where transformation begins from the inside out! Your host, Coach Jedi, explores coaching conversations that unlock clarity, spark insight, and bring you closer to your purpose.

In this special episode, we're joined by Dr. Nash Siamwalla, a remarkable individual and a former classmate of Coach Jedi, now a participant in Mr. Gay Universe Thailand 2025. This profound conversation delves into Dr. Nash's deeply personal journey, highlighting the power of owning one's story and the transformative impact of self-acceptance.

This episode is a profound exploration of identity, courage, and community, directly reflecting the ethos of Coach Jedi's "Brave Your Story" brand – helping individuals own their narrative and live life courageously.

In this captivating interview, you'll discover:

• Self-Acceptance: The First StepCoach Jedi emphasizes that true transformation begins with self-acceptance, particularly for LGBT individuals who often suppress their stories due to societal fears. Dr. Nash's journey exemplifies this, highlighting the importance of "coming out to oneself first" rather than focusing solely on external 'coming out'. This internal acceptance is a key measure of success, irrespective of external validation. The conversation reveals that courage isn't always a grand, bold act, but can be as simple as an intention to "thank them" for an opportunity, as Dr. Nash describes his entry into the Mr. Gay Universe competition.

• The Coach Within & MindfulnessThe podcast explores how everyone possesses an "inner coach" – a source of encouragement and self-guidance, especially when external support feels distant. Mindfulness practices are presented as practical tools to cultivate self-awareness, ground oneself in the present, and navigate the "many voices" of fear and confusion within.

• The Power of Communities & Reverse InclusionA central theme is the "Power of Communities," aligning with the Mr. Gay Universe competition's focus. Coach Jedi redefines "community" not just as people gathering, but as a deliberate "commune" – coming together with a shared purpose, often around acts of giving and co-creation. A powerful concept introduced is "reverse inclusion," exemplified by a Taiwan cafe helping LGBT individuals find love while also being open to straight people. This approach challenges traditional notions of inclusion by fostering a sense of belonging for everyone, removing the 'othering' that often comes with attempts to include marginalized groups. Dr. Nash shares his view that Asian culture often embodies this spirit, where "everybody come to give, not every come to demand something".

• Success Beyond DefinitionsCoach Jedi asserts that "every story is a success story". Success isn't measured by outward "outness" or conformity, but by whether an individual has accepted who they are. The episode offers practical insights into taking "baby steps" towards self-acceptance, such as writing down one's truth before voicing it, which can overcome fear and lead to powerful self-realization.

Whether you're a coach, a leader, or on a personal growth journey, this episode offers profound insights into self-discovery, courageous living, and the true meaning of community. Ignite the coach within and brave your story! If this episode resonated with you, take a moment to reflect, journal, or share it with someone who needs to hear it.

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Welcome back to The Coach Within! In this transformative episode, your host, Coach Jedi, is joined by Irene to bring you an exclusive masterclass on acing your ICF ACC Credentialing Exam.

This episode goes beyond simply passing; it's designed to equip you with the mindset, strategies, and preparation needed to truly excel. Whether you're a coach, a leader, or on a journey of personal growth, this is your definitive guide to navigating the ICF certification process effectively.

What You'll Discover in This Episode:

• Understanding the Exam Structure: Learn about the ICF Credentialing Exam for ACC Level 1, a knowledge-based assessment comprising 60 multiple-choice questions to be completed in 90 minutes at Pearson's VUE testing centers worldwide. We highly recommend taking the exam in person for a more conducive environment.

• Key Exam Content Areas: The exam validates your foundational understanding of the ICF Core Competencies, Code of Ethics, and the definition of coaching. These are your crucial study sources.

• Scoring for Success: Aim for 80% and above, with a minimum passing score of 460 out of 600 points (approximately 76%).

• Deep Dive into Exam Categories:
• The "PASS" Exam Preparation Framework:
• Practical Study Habits: Implement a 30-minute daily "PASS" study habit to build familiarity and confidence before your exam.

• The Purpose of the Knowledge Test: It's not just about memorizing facts; it's about testing your coaching mindset and your ability to maintain presence under time pressure.

• Strategic Test-Taking Tips: Learn to "think like a coach, not a technician," eliminate "fix-it" options, stay neutral and empowering, and always choose the ethically sound response, even if inconvenient.

• Real-World Practice Questions: We'll walk through sample questions discussing common dilemmas related to confidentiality, conflict of interest, boundary violations, managing client records, and more, offering insights into how to discern the "best" answer according to ICF phrasing. Remember to focus on the phrasing and key terms in the questions.

Ignite the coach within and brave your story! This episode offers invaluable, free resources to support your credentialing journey. We believe coaching is about sharing knowledge, not hiding it.

If today's episode sparked something in you, take a moment to reflect, journal, or share it with someone who needs to hear it. Want to experience coaching or explore our upcoming programs?

Head to jedi.coach or check out our show notes to connect. Please follow, share, and leave a review to help more people find us. Until next time, keep listening, keep reflecting, and keep braving your story from within!

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This episode of "The Coach Within," hosted by Coach Jedi, delves into a key concept in coaching: the coaching mindset. It moves beyond the common confusion between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset, explaining that while a growth mindset has merits, it doesn't fully encompass what a coaching mindset is about. The episode emphasizes the importance of embracing the idea that the world within has infinite possibilities and infinite perspectives, as coaches to hold the space for our clients with an agile mindset of learning and empathy.

A central theme is the exploration of the "world that is seen and the world that is unseen". The speaker explains that as we grow, we form internal "rules of life" – unspoken, unwritten rules on our hearts that guide our choices and decisions. These rules are formulated over years from our earliest experiences, influenced by surroundings, family, friends, and life events, serving as a consistent mechanism to protect us. These rules influence our choices daily and, when they become more fixed, contribute to what is sometimes mislabeled as a "fixed mindset". The episode argues that fixed mindsets are not inherently bad and are necessary for certain things, like daily routines, just as rules and doors in a house provide protection and security.

The episode uses the metaphor of an iceberg to illustrate the seen and unseen worlds. What we observe and experience physically is often an interpretation of reality, influenced by our senses and filters. The crucial, unseen part of the iceberg lies beneath the surface – the drivers, motivations, values, beliefs, rules, cultural norms, family culture, and personal viewpoints that influence our choices and how we see the world. This deeper, unseen part is what the coaching process often focuses on. Understanding the unseen world, including these underlying layers (drivers/what, motivations/why, and core rules/who/values/identity), is critical because it impacts and influences everything we can see.

The episode highlights that conflicts and clashes, whether with others or within ourselves, often stem from collisions of these deeper rules and values, like two icebergs meeting. Asking "why are they like that?" is less insightful than understanding the clash of underlying rules and values. Forcing one's rules onto others creates conflict and protest rather than true agreement.

Developing a coaching mindset involves being sensitive to the client's unique "map of the world," understanding that their experience, even of similar events, is filtered through their lens, not ours. Mastery in coaching is not just about certifications but about gaining clarity and mastery of who we are.

The journey of mastery is complex and involves embracing curiosity, learning, humility, and patience. Ultimately, a coaching mindset is about embracing the moment, being sensitive, and understanding one's own worldview and the world one lives in to become a better coach.

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Welcome back to Ep 9 of Brave Your Story

This episode explores the powerful conversation between regret (yi han 遺憾) and to cherish (zhen xi 珍惜), drawing deep insights from the pictographic nature of traditional Chinese characters. Discover how yi han is not just a mistake, but the lingering ache of something precious that was once near but has moved away. Learn how zhen xi is more than just treasuring; it's a state of being – the act of giving your heart fully to the present moment and holding dear what is precious.

The conversation delves into the heart of coaching presence, highlighting that being a coach is about being, not just doing. It challenges the notion of avoiding regrets, suggesting instead that it's okay to embrace them as part of the human experience. You'll gain insight into how coaches must go deeper within themselves to truly partner with clients through their own regrets and moments of cherishing.

Key takeaways include understanding coaching as a "soul setting" process focused on creating a gentle space for clients to simply be, rather than just solving problems or setting goals. The episode emphasizes that developing presence involves letting go of techniques and embracing authentic connection and the experience of the moment.

Ultimately, the most profound insight shared is that life doesn't require extraordinary moments to be beautiful; it simply requires presence in the ordinary ones. Learn how to cherish the moment now to deny regret its greatest chance to bloom.

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In this episode, "Mastery in Coaching - Going from Good to Great (Coach vs Client Mindset) Part 4," we delve into the critical interplay between the mindset of the coach and that of the client in the coaching process.

Building upon our previous discussions on the coaching mindset and its foundation of self-awareness, self-regulation, and self-development, as well as the six key domains of Coaching Mindset, this episode specifically focuses on the perspectives each party brings to the coaching conversation.

Coach Jedi highlights that in every coaching engagement, two primary mindsets are at play: the coach's and the client's. While acknowledging the influence of sponsors and external stakeholders, this episode hones in on these two crucial roles.

It's important to recognize that clients may enter the coaching relationship with pre-existing worldviews and potentially misconstrued ideas about what coaching entails, possibly drawing parallels to roles like teachers, mentors, or authority figures. Therefore, exploring the client's worldview gently at the outset is critical to understanding their perceived strengths, weaknesses (or opportunities for growth), underlying beliefs, and core values. This initial exploration helps to lay the groundwork for a more effective and trusting partnership.

We also examine the coach's mindset, which Coach Jedi frames as the "coach's growth potential". This encompasses the fundamental belief that everyone, including the client, is capable of growth through effort and ongoing development. Key aspects of the coach's mindset explored in this episode include:

• Radical Curiosity: The authentic and genuine desire to learn more about the client, asking probing questions to evoke deeper awareness and insights, while distinguishing it from mere inquisitiveness.

• Empathic Resonant Listening: Viewing empathy as a two-way street, requiring a reciprocal response and the ability to adjust based on the client's inputs, while suspending judgment and observing both verbal and nonverbal cues.

• Humility and Respect: Emphasizing the importance of showing up authentically for the client with good intention, rather than being driven by ego or the need to impress with credentials or complex language. True humility involves being available for the client, trusting the process, and recognizing that the coaching is about the client's story, not the coach's.

Understanding these distinct yet interconnected mindsets is fundamental to mastering the art of coaching. True mastery is presented not as achieving a certain performance level, but as a deepening and sharpening of one's abilities and an appreciation for the journey.

Tune in to gain valuable insights into how to recognize and navigate both the client's and your own mindset to foster transformative coaching conversations. Discover how to cultivate the essential elements of the coach's mindset to best support your clients in braving their stories and unlocking their full potential.

Reflect on your own mindset and the mindsets of your clients as you listen to this essential episode.

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Welcome back to the Coach Within with your host, Coach Jedi. In this episode, 'Mastery in Coaching - Going from Good to Great (6 Domains of Coaching Mindset) Part 3',

We delve deeper into the practical application of developing a masterful coaching mindset. Coach Jedi explores the crucial concept that true coaching mastery isn't about accumulating more techniques, but about a profound deepening of self-awareness and a commitment to being truly client-centered.

Discover the foundational importance of self-awareness, self-development, and self-regulation in every coaching conversation.

This episode uncovers six key domains that embody the coaching mindset in practice:

1. Building trust and intimacy through strong client relationships,

2. cultivating deep curiosity and partnership in the conversational flow,

3. mastering the art of listening beyond the surface to the whole of the client,

4. empowering clients by giving them the autonomy to grow and maximize their potential,

5. embracing continuous learning and reflection alongside your clients, and

6. embodying wholeness, resourcefulness, creativity, and flexibility in your coaching presence.

Learn how this integrated coaching mindset is the core of all effective coaching competencies, moving beyond simply applying tools and techniques.

Tune in to gain practical insights on how to cultivate these domains and embark on your journey from good to great in your coaching practice. Reflect on your own development and identify areas for deeper growth in this transformative episode.

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Welcome back to The Coach Within!

In Episode 6, we continue our deep dive into the crucial elements of coaching mastery and what it truly takes to move "From Good to Great." Following our previous discussion on the foundational nature of the coaching mindset, host Coach Jedi now unpacks the three key fundamentals that underpin this essential competency.

This episode reveals that a truly effective coach embodies a specific way of being that goes far beyond mere skills and techniques. Coach Jedi emphasizes that coaching is a mindset, a shift, and the very condition for learning.

Discover the importance of developing and sustaining an "embodied" coaching mindset characterized by openness, curiosity, flexibility, and a deep client-centered focus.

In this episode, you'll learn about the three critical elements that form the bedrock of this powerful mindset:

• Self-Awareness: Building upon previous discussions, Coach Jedi highlights the importance of understanding your role as a coach, how your worldview influences your interactions, and how to tap into your intuition to best support your clients' growth and autonomy.

• Self-Development: Explore the continuous journey of identifying opportunities for growth as both a coach and an individual. This segment delves into understanding your personal learning style beyond simplistic categorizations and emphasizes the value of ongoing learning and engaging in mentor coaching.

• Self-Regulation: Learn how to manage your emotional, mental, and physical state to show up authentically and effectively for your clients. Discover the significance of being present, sensitive to the client's needs, and creating the optimal conditions for their success.

Drawing a powerful analogy to navigating a ship, Coach Jedi illustrates how coaching requires understanding the "undercurrents" and making continuous adjustments rather than rigidly focusing on a predetermined outcome.

This episode underscores that the coaching process is not about providing answers but about co-creating the conditions for learning and enabling the client's curiosity.

Coaching mastery is about showing up authentically and fostering a client-centered environment where individuals can discover their potential, embrace change, and move towards their definition of success.

Tune in to this insightful episode to deepen your understanding of the coaching mindset and gain practical insights into cultivating self-awareness, self-development, and self-regulation in your coaching practice.

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