• 210 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 5: Being with Another Human Being
    Mar 17 2025

    It is said that death and taxes are inevitable but so is running into relationship sticking points. Sooner or later, every intimate relationship faces several challenging issues, and if the relationship is going to last, they must be handled successfully.

    In the final episode of this 5-part series, the focus is on several frequently ignored but important relationship sticking points that arise simply as the result of relating with another human being. The assumption that a healthy relationship is harmonious and mostly conflict-free is challenged. You’ll learn that conflict arises because of different backgrounds, experiences, personality types, and different decision-making processes, but all of that is a good thing and a sign of a healthy connection.

    Perhaps the most intriguing aspect to this podcast is the discussion of something called, “The Conflict Bell Curve” in relationships. This is a new idea never spoken about on this podcast or anywhere else.

    Don’t miss this ground-breaking episode.

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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  • 209 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 4: Meeting Emotional Needs
    Mar 10 2025

    It is said that death and taxes are inevitable but so is running into relationship sticking points. Sooner or later, every intimate relationship faces several challenging issues, and if the relationship is going to last, they must be handled successfully.

    In the fourth episode of this 5-part series, the focus is on how to navigate the different emotional needs that often exist between partners. Though men and women are equal in value, they are very different, especially when it comes to their respective emotional needs. The difference in needs is the result of different personality types, attachment styles, and of course, masculine/feminine dynamics, and each of these issues is addressed in detail. Finally, the current perspective that relationships are “transactional” is discussed, and frankly, shredded.

    If you want to be in a relationship that can go the distance, then don’t miss this episode.

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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  • 208 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 3: Sex
    Mar 3 2025

    It is said that death and taxes are inevitable but so is running into relationship sticking points. Sooner or later, every intimate relationship faces several challenging issues, and if the relationship is going to last, they must be handled successfully.

    In the third episode of this 5-part series, the focus is on sex. The issues addressed are when to have sex (sorry guys, this is bad news for you), when to reveal your complete sexual history, setting safe sex boundaries, handling different sex drives, dealing with sexual dysfunctions like being nonorgasmic, E.D. and premature ejaculation, and lastly, you’ll hear how to have great sex!

    Don’t miss this episode.

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    1 h y 6 m
  • 207 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 2: Money & Couples
    Feb 24 2025

    It is said that death and taxes are inevitable but so is running into relationship sticking points. Sooner or later, every intimate relationship faces several challenging issues, and if the relationship is going to last, they must be handled successfully.

    In the second episode of this 5-part series, the focus is on money and couples. The three underlying commitments discussed in part one is further explored, but then Roy gets into the “weeds,” discussing savers & spenders, trust & fear, joint & separate bank accounts, even prenups! At the end of the episode, there’s even a mini rant about how to handle vastly different incomes between partners.

    Don’t miss this down-in-the-dirt relevant episode!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    1 h y 2 m
  • 206 Relationship Sticking Points, Pt. 1: Money & Dating
    Feb 17 2025

    It is said that death and taxes are inevitable but so is running into relationship sticking points. Sooner or later, every intimate relationship faces several challenging issues, and if the relationship is going to last, they must be handled successfully.

    In this episode, our host, Roy Biancalana, talks about money and dating. Not only will you get some mindful suggestions as to who pays for what and why, and when money responsibilities begins to change in dating, but more importantly, you’ll learn three underlying commitments that allow you to work through any relationship sticking point.

    Don’t miss this relevant episode!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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  • 205 Roy’s Rants (Vol. 3): Valentine’s Day Edition: Roy Rants About the Struggle to Connect
    Feb 10 2025

    In this edition of “Roy’s Rants,” which is back by popular demand, Roy rants about Valentine’s Day and our struggle to connect.

    While most of us want to find a life partner, it seems that we are growing further and further apart. Men are increasingly less interested in relationships and women believe that the more self-sufficient they become, the less interested men seem to be.

    In this V-day episode, we discuss what divides us and what needs to happen so that we can finally connect with each other.

    Don’t miss this special episode!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    1 h y 1 m
  • 204 The Big Five in ’25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 5: Improving Your People Skills
    Feb 3 2025

    We all want to feel alive, motivated and inspired, but few of us know specifically how to create such a life. Well, in the podcast series, Roy Biancalana, our host, describes 5 big ideas that will make 2025 come alive. If you were to devote yourself to any one of them, your life will never be the same.

    In this, the last episode of the series, Roy talks about how to improve your people skills. Being successful professionally or personally is largely about the quality or depth of your connection with other people, so in this episode, you will learn now to “loop awareness,” meaning, how to know your truth and someone else’s.

    This is a very practical podcast, one that can show you how to feel alive in ’25. Don’t miss it!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    51 m
  • 203 The Big Five in ’25: 5 Big Ideas that Will Make 2025 Come Alive: Pt. 4: Making “Whole-Body YES!” Decisions
    Jan 27 2025

    We all want to feel alive, motivated and inspired, but few of us know specifically how to create such a life. Well, in the podcast series, Roy Biancalana, our host, describes 5 big ideas that will make 2025 come alive. If you were to devote yourself to any one of them, your life will never be the same.

    In this, the fourth episode of the series, you will learn how to make decisions you won’t regret. You’ll learn about your three centers of intelligence—intellectual center, emotional center & instinctual center—and why having them aligned is so important and what to do when one of them is clouded by some experience in the past.

    This is a very practical podcast, one that can show you how to feel alive in ’25. Don’t miss it!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 3 Books:

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    1 h y 1 m