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Imagine walking into a sex store and finding not just toys, but a whole education on pleasure waiting for you. That's the world Nikki Kelly invites us into in this eye-opening conversation about what really happens behind the counter at adult stores.

Nikki isn't your typical sex educator—she's a spreadsheet-wielding analyst who approaches pleasure with both passion and precision. Her detailed breakdowns of product categories, from bullet vibrators to air pulse technology, transform how we understand these tools. We learn why some toys work better than others, how marketing language often misleads consumers, and what questions actually matter when selecting products for yourself or a partner.

The conversation shatters common myths about sex shops and their clientele. Contrary to what many assume, women make up the majority of customers in many stores, often shopping in groups and turning the experience into a normalized social activity. Meanwhile, we explore why men frequently shop online instead, highlighting how shame and discomfort still shape our relationship with pleasure.

Perhaps most enlightening is the discussion about size preferences and what women actually purchase. Research and sales data tell a story vastly different from what pop culture suggests, offering a reality check that could transform how partners communicate about pleasure. Throughout, Nikki emphasizes that sex toys aren't competitors to human connection but collaborative tools that enhance intimacy when approached without ego or insecurity.

Whether you're curious about the latest innovations in pleasure technology, wondering what questions to ask before making a purchase, or simply want to understand your own or your partner's body better, this conversation offers frank, funny, and deeply informative insights that will change how you think about pleasure forever.

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The journey of reconnecting intimately after welcoming a child is a struggle so many couples face in silence. When desire fades and bodies feel unfamiliar, both partners can find themselves adrift in frustration and confusion, unsure how to rebuild what once came naturally.

Through one listener's painfully honest question, we explore the science behind postpartum desire and why intimacy often takes a backseat after baby. The reality? Your diminished sex life isn't personal rejection—it's biology at work. With 83% of new mothers reporting little to no desire months after birth, these changes represent a normal phase rather than a permanent relationship shift.

I break down the mechanics of desire using the car metaphor: there's an accelerator (turn-ons) and brakes (turn-offs). After childbirth, a woman's brakes are firmly engaged by physical discomfort, hormone fluctuations, and extreme fatigue. No amount of pressing the gas pedal will move forward if those brakes remain locked. The path back to connection starts with gently easing those brakes—creating safety, reducing pressure, and rebuilding non-sexual intimacy first.

We explore responsive desire (feeling aroused only after positive stimulation begins), the importance of lubrication, and practical ways to rebuild connection outside the bedroom. For partners with higher desire, I offer compassionate strategies to manage frustration while supporting recovery. From hormonal realities that temporarily suppress libido to communication approaches that foster emotional safety, this episode provides a roadmap for navigating one of parenthood's most challenging transitions.

Whether you're in the thick of postpartum disconnection or supporting someone who is, tune in to understand how intimacy can indeed return—with patience, care, and a willingness to discover new forms of connection along the way. Subscribe, share your experiences, and remember that this challenging phase will eventually shift with the right understanding and support.

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Curious about going big? This candid exploration of extreme size play delivers everything you need to know about venturing beyond typical bedroom toys. Whether you're intrigued by supersized dildos, fisting, or just something a bit more substantial than average, we break down the facts without judgment or unnecessary alarm.

Let's address what everyone worries about first: yes, there are legitimate risks to consider. The delicate tissues of both vagina and anus can experience microtears, muscle strain, or even infection when play becomes too intense or hygiene practices lapse. We candidly discuss the real concerns while separating fact from fear-mongering. That common worry about prolapse? We tackle that head-on with medical reality rather than urban myths.

The heart of this episode focuses on practical safety strategies that dramatically reduce these risks. From the non-negotiable importance of quality lubrication to the gradual progression that respects your body's limits, we outline a comprehensive approach to safer size play. Learn why body-safe materials matter, how proper gloves protect both partners, and why aftercare deserves as much attention as the act itself. We compare vaginal and anal considerations, highlighting their different anatomical realities and safety needs.

Beyond the physical aspects, we emphasize that consensual kink exploration is a valid expression of sexuality deserving of respect, not shame. Our approach combines pleasure-positive encouragement with responsible guidance, including suggestions for finding kink-aware healthcare providers who can offer judgment-free support. Ready to explore your desires with confidence? This episode equips you with the knowledge to chase those big thrills safely, smartly, and on your own terms. Remember – it's not about pushing limits, but expanding pleasure with awareness and care.

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Don't forget to check out the podcast at:

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