Welcome to Episode 430 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Lynn Lohide, a professional body piercer and needle play educator. Lynn speaks to me about the fascinating world of needle play - what it is, how it's practiced safely, and the deeper emotional and psychological connections people have with it.

In our conversation, Lynn shares how their journey into professional piercing led them to discover the erotic and ritualistic aspects of needle play. We explore the ways in which controlled pain can serve as a tool for self-discovery, healing, and even reclaiming one's body.

Lynn has been professionally piercing since 2011, facilitating body suspensions since 2013, and doing play piercings since 2013. They have a passion for everything hook and piercing related, and since their first piercing they have been immensely drawn to the craft.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding What Needle Play Is and Its Various Forms

· The Overlap Between Professional Piercing and Kink Exploration

· How Needle Play Can Be Used for Healing and Self-Empowerment

· The Role of Trust, Consent, and Safety in Needle Play

· The Psychological and Emotional Impact of Engaging in This Practice

· The Historical Ties Between Needle Play and Queer Leather Culture

· Common Myths and Misconceptions About Needles in BDSM

· How Individuals Can Explore Needle Play for the First Time

· The Importance of Education and Safe Practices in Needle Play

· Resources for Learning More About This Fascinating Kink

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Welcome to Episode 429 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Ariel Anderssen, who shares her incredible journey from growing up in a strict religious community to becoming a BDSM model and advocate. We explore the origins of kink, whether it’s something we’re born with or develop over time, along with the role of trust, communication, and appreciation in BDSM relationships.

Ariel opens up about her early fascination with power dynamics, how she discovered the BDSM community, and how modeling helped her embrace her sexuality. We also discuss the impact of growing up in a restrictive religious environment, the misconceptions surrounding BDSM, and why trust and mutual respect are at the core of these dynamics.

Ariel Anderssen is a BDSM model and author with a lifetime's interest in submission and masochism. She released her first book, playing to lose, in 2023, where she charts her journey from a strict religious upbringing to becoming a shame-free, widely recognised BDSM performer. She's currently writing her second book.

In this episode, you will hear:

· How Early Fantasies Can Shape Adult Sexuality

· Nature vs. Nurture: Are We Born Kinky?

· Ariel’s Transition from a Religious Upbringing to the BDSM Scene

· The Role of Trust and Communication in BDSM Dynamics

· How Nude Modeling Helped Ariel Heal Her Relationship with Her Body

· Breaking Free from Shame and Embracing Kink

· Misconceptions About BDSM in Popular Media

· Tips for Dominants to Create a More Fulfilling Experience for Their Partners

· The Importance of Aftercare and Emotional Connection in BDSM

· Where to Find Resources for Exploring Kink Safely

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Welcome to Episode 428 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I’m excited to be joined by Dr. Alexandria Saunders, who speaks to me about the transformative practice of Yoni massage within Tantra. We explore how this sacred technique can deepen intimacy, heal past trauma, and help individuals reconnect with their bodies in a more profound and holistic way.

In this episode, Dr. Alexandria shares how her journey into Tantra began through yoga and how she seamlessly integrates spiritual and sexual wellness into her work. We discuss the misconceptions surrounding Tantra, emphasizing that it’s more than just sexual positions - it's a philosophy that celebrates the body and pleasure as pathways to deeper awareness.

Dr. Alexandria Saunders is a sexologist, tantra coach, and pleasure activist dedicated to cultivating spaces of safety. With a doctorate in sexology and countless clinical and spiritual trainings and certifications, Alexandria allows her wisdom to guide her toward offering the medicine of her heart, which is to help others heal trauma and reintegrate their sexuality so they can wholly embody pleasure. As a medicine woman, Alexandria walks with people as they discover the depths of bliss hidden behind their scars. Healing trauma, reintegrating sexuality, and embodying pleasure are all guideposts of her work.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Understanding Yoni Massage And Its Role In Tantra

· The Connection Between Sexuality, Spirituality, And Healing

· How Trauma And Cultural Conditioning Affect Our Relationship With Pleasure

· Practical Steps To Incorporate Yoni Massage Into Solo And Partnered Practices

· The Importance Of Presence, Breathwork, And Energy Awareness

· How To Navigate Vulnerability And Emotional Releases During The Practice

· Addressing Body Shame And Cultivating Self-Acceptance

· Why Removing Goal-Oriented Thinking Enhances The Experience

· Tips For Givers On Maintaining Presence And Intuition In Touch

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