Episodios

  • Ep. 6 | Should We Dismantle The Patriarchy?
    Mar 18 2025
    On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and the crew joined by special guests Passport Cutty (The M In Man Is For Money), Mouse Jones (Dead Ass Comedy Show, Trap Karoke) and Ish (That Ish, The Joe Budden Podcast) tackle the idea of defining patriarchy and its impact (00:00), exploring how it shapes gender roles, relationships, and societal norms. We dive into the emotional and financial dynamics in relationships (03:01), discussing how power, expectations, and personal responsibility play a role. From there, we examine gender roles and expectations (05:54), questioning traditional ideals and whether they still hold value today. The discussion heats up with the debate on dismantling patriarchy (08:58), weighing arguments for and against keeping this system in place. We then explore the role of women in upholding patriarchy (11:46), looking at how societal conditioning influences participation in these structures. The conversation shifts to the intersection of money and relationships (15:06), highlighting financial dynamics and their effect on power balances. As we move forward, we unpack cultural shifts and relationship dynamics (17:53), considering how evolving values impact dating and long-term commitments. We also address the physical component of protection (21:09), questioning traditional expectations of men as protectors. Then, we take a deep dive into navigating modern dating and expectations (23:54), exploring how shifting gender roles influence today’s dating scene. Next, we analyze the influence of societal norms on relationships (27:00), exposing the pressures that shape romantic partnerships. We then take a step back to examine the historical context of marriage and relationships (30:01), understanding how past traditions still affect modern unions. Looking ahead, we question the future of gender roles and relationships (33:13), imagining where we might be headed. The conversation takes a serious turn as we discuss the impact of welfare on family dynamics (41:12), exploring how social programs have shaped family structures. We also call out hypocrisy in gender expectations (44:23), addressing the double standards in societal roles. Money remains a key topic as we break down navigating financial dynamics in relationships (51:23), discussing fairness and accountability. Finally, we confront the reality of marriage and relationship expectations (01:00:51), going beyond romanticized ideals to talk about the real challenges couples face. This leads into a personal reflection on dismantling patriarchy (01:09:01), exploring what it means to break free from traditional structures. The conversation closes with concluding thoughts on fairness and relationships (01:18:42), emphasizing the importance of balance, equity, and mutual understanding in partnerships. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow the Guests: IG: @passportcuttyIG: @mouse_jonesIG: @thatsthatishWatch the full videos of each episode by subscribing to Patreon at Patreon.com/selectiveignoranceFollow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumpsFollow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selective_ignoranceTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveigpod
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  • Ep. 5 | Can Fat People Fat Shame?
    Mar 11 2025
    On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and co. welcome special guests Mero (7PM In Brooklyn with Carmelo Anthony, Victory Light Podcast), Lizbell Ortiz, and Rainey Ovalle (Victory Light Podcast) for an open, honest, and thoughtful conversation about body image, fat shaming, and the pressures of society’s expectations around weight. The discussion kicks off with an exploration of fat shaming and body image (02:49), followed by a debate on whether there’s ever a “right” to fat shame (06:02). The guests break down celebrity weight loss and public perception (09:03), touching on Lizzo’s influence in the body positivity movement (12:01) and how society shapes body image standards (14:53). The conversation takes a deeper dive into the differences in weight and acceptance between men and women (18:08), as well as personal stories of weight loss journeys (20:58). They also address the hypocrisy in body image discussions (23:53) and how individuals navigate body image in the public eye (30:55). Shifting gears, they discuss fashion’s relationship with body types and self-expression (34:52) and the role of comedy in body shaming (39:05), questioning where the line is between humor and harm. The conversation continues with a discussion on accountability in comedy and offense (46:04) and the contradictions found in personal preferences and attraction (50:17). Closing out, they underscore the power of self-love and body acceptance (56:05) while acknowledging the challenges of staying true to oneself amid societal pressures.

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    IG: @thekidmero
    IG: @lizbellortiz
    IG: @raineyorvalle

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  • Ep. 4 | Is There Accountability In The Justice System feat. Selena Hill & Kenneth Montgomery, ESQ
    Mar 3 2025
    On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B takes a deep dive into accountability and justice within the Black community and the criminal justice system. Joined by special guests Selena Hill (Black Enterprise) and criminal defense attorney Kenneth J. Montgomery, the conversation unpacks sentencing disparities, performative activism, and the role of education and community in addressing crime.The discussion begins with (00:00) a call for accountability in the Black community before examining (02:45) disparities in the justice system. Selena and KJM explore (06:08) crime and punishment, questioning fairness and consequences, and discuss the balance between community responsibility and individual accountability (09:03). They also examine (11:54) the role of Black Lives Matter, (14:49) how sensational cases shape public perception, and the impact of white-collar crimes (18:03). As the conversation continues, they address (20:57) whether justice is truly fair, (23:51) the tension between empathy and accountability, and (27:13) the bigger picture of crime’s effect on the community. The episode also highlights (32:46) economic struggles and cooperative economics, (34:34) flaws in the criminal justice system, and (37:16) how redemption plays into accountability. Closing out, the guests discuss (41:42) how celebrity culture influences violence, (50:41) the challenges of defending the innocent in a flawed system, and (54:49) the importance of community education and accountability. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.

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    IG: @msselenahill
    IG: @kjmpllc

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    1 h y 3 m
  • Ep. 3 | Can You Separate The Art From The Artist feat. Rory Farrell
    Feb 25 2025
    On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B with special guest and fellow podcaster Rory Farrell dive into the ongoing debate of separating art from the artist (00:00), tackling the hypocrisy in music and how controversial figures are celebrated (02:50). Mandii B and Rory Farrell break down the influence of social media on artist perception (09:01), the power of redemption (11:52), and the double-edged sword of fame (18:03). They explore cancel culture and the nuances of accountability (20:59), the responsibility of platforms (35:29), and the evolving standards in hip-hop (50:12). From the legacy of R. Kelly (42:33) to the blurred lines between art and reality (01:02:21), this conversation unpacks the cultural shifts shaping the music industry today. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.

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    IG @ThisIsRory

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  • TRAILER: Selective Ignorance with Mandii B
    Feb 18 2025
    Society is brimming with hypocrisy, indignation and opinions—the Selective Ignorance Podcast will dare to challenge the complexities behind internet reaction and the public’s beliefs by unpacking trending topics with educational comedy and quick wit hot takes.

    Each week, Mandii B engages guests from the worlds of media, comedy and entertainment, as well as cultural and topical experts, to tackle everything from current events to the latest scandals in order to confront biases, embrace the uncomfortable and embark on a journey that shakes the status quo.
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  • Ep. 2 | Should We Be Conscious Consumers feat. Antoinette Lee
    Feb 18 2025
    Mandi B, joined by special guest Antoinette from the Around The Way Curls podcast, take a deep dive into capitalism, corporate culture, and the challenges of conscious consumerism. They kick things off by examining the tug-of-war between personal values and consumer choices (2:54) before breaking down the real impact of boycotts and collective action (6:13). The conversation explores the tension between individual responsibility and community welfare (9:02), the influence of wealth and power in shaping society (11:50), and the challenges of aligning personal values with everyday spending habits (15:08).They also share personal experiences navigating consumerism (20:47), discuss the importance of community support (23:56), and reflect on class dynamics and service (26:59). The episode dives into workplace inequities (34:22), how capitalism intersects with identity (35:21), and the harsh realities of “survival of the fittest” in a system built on profit (36:48). As the conversation deepens, they explore the burden of caring—balancing personal responsibility with collective change (39:08), the nuance of organizing and activism (46:22), and the resilience of communities in the face of economic exploitation (52:29). They close with a vision for freedom rooted in community (57:09) and a reflection on class struggles and the need for empathy (1:02:34). Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.

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    IG @antoinettewashere | @aroundthewaycurls
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  • Ep. 1 | The Nuance About Supporting Black Business
    Feb 18 2025
    On this debut episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandi B reflects on her recent move to Atlanta, the end of a partnership in podcasting and her new solo venture, 'Selective Ignorance’ (1:00). Mandii discusses the importance of success, freedom, and the power of discourse (4:24), while also addressing criticism and the realities of the podcasting industry (6:19). The episode highlights the significance of community support, particularly for black businesses. Mandi also shares a wild and funny story about her transition from New York City to Atlanta (33:37), the challenges faced during the furniture delivery process, the cultural dynamics at play with the moving company (40:43) and the expectations of service within the black community (54:49). The discussion evolves into a broader critique of black businesses and the need for accountability and more. Tune in and comment in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.

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    1 h y 12 m