This is a brilliant question — not for the reason you asked it.

Should a man keep paying even if you’re well into the relationship?
Ask him: “I notice that we’re sort of in a relationship here. Are we? Or are we just dating?”
If you’re just dating — and you are still circular dating — he pays for everything. Just don’t step in.If he says, “Listen, would you pay for half of it now?”You say, “Are we dating?”And he’ll say, “Well, we’re dating.”

You say, “Okay — no, you pay.” You could do that.

The idea is — you’re starting a conversation.

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Love, Rori

On a date, you might find yourself smiling and nodding along while he talks—and talks—and somewhere inside, you’re feeling… invisible.Instead of pushing through or pretending you’re fine, try this:“You know, I really followed you through that story. I could feel how frustrating it was for you… and I’m actually starting to feel a little frustrated myself. I think I’d love to feel more connected—is there anything you’d like to know about me?”This isn’t about confronting him.It’s about tuning in to you—before the irritation builds, before you go quiet, before you disappear.You’re not trying to impress him. You’re inviting him into connection. If you’d like support in staying soft, open, and real on your dates (without losing yourself or your voice), Siren Island is here for you.Come join us for live classes, tools, and real-time coaching:https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-community-program/Love,Rori

Something feels off on the date—but what is it, exactly? Why do some moments feel like magic, and others fall flat?

What’s really happening when things don’t go as hoped? It’s not about him.

💔 You’re wondering why he talked your ear off and never called again.

💬 You’re replaying the moment he kissed you goodbye but asked zero questions.

🌪 You’re stuck in your head, trying to decode it all.

Most of us aren’t actually on the date. We’re in the future. We’re strategizing, performing, and abandoning our own experience.

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Love, Rori