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Losing your sapphic v-card? Terrified you’ll fumble the bag? We got you. This episode is your survival guide to sapphic sex, confidence, flirting, and ahem hands-on skills included. We’re joined by queer sex-ed pro Eva Bloom and sapphic dating expert Zhané to break down the do’s and don’ts of queer intimacy. From navigating your first time to mastering the art of the flirt, this one’s packed with hot tips (literally). Plus, we wrap things up with a round of Sapphic Smutty Mad Libs because education should always come with a little filth.

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00:00 intro
01:48 first time with a woman
14:54 ways to confirm your queerness
16:21 being a newbie means no one wants you?
18:21 Queer vs straight flirting
22:49 Sapphic vs straight sex
30:27 how to flirt with Sapphics
38:54 having Sapphic sex
47:59 Strapping advice
55:35 Top or bottom?
58:40 Trans femmes & neurodivergents
59:58 Sexy Sapphic Smutt

So, you wanna open up your relationship but don’t wanna crash and burn in a fiery mess of jealousy and regret? We got you. We’re joined by three queer, non-monogamous therapists from the Polyamory Therapy Collective to give you the ultimate survival guide to ENM—how to start the convo, avoid rookie mistakes, and actually enjoy the ride. We’re unpacking couples’ privilege, imposter syndrome, and why your gut is doing backflips every time your partner even mentions someone new. Whether you're non-monogamy-curious or in the trenches, this one's essential.

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00:00 Intro
02:11 What are open relationships?
07:24 Is ENM for you?
11:29 Is it ethical?
16:08 How to ask your partner to open up
23:57 What to discuss before opening up
29:38 What if it doesn't feel good for you?
33:13 Dealing with imposter syndrome
41:49 Is ENM NOT for you?
43:00 Don't make these mistakes
46:53 How to forgive those who hurt you
50:17 Couple's privilege
56:00 Staying in touch with an ex
01:01:16 If you feel distant from this conversation

What does it really mean to be a lesbian? Is it a vibe? A gender? A political stance? We’re diving headfirst into the evolution of lesbian identity—breaking down butch and femme history, masculinity, queerness, and what it truly means to de-center men (spoiler: it’s liberating). With three wildly different lesbians at the table - Haviah, Pkat, and Karbon - we’re serving history, academic drama, and personal hot takes. It’s intellectual, it’s unhinged, and it’s very, very gay. Buckle up, baby dykes.

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00:00 intro
05:18 the lesbian identity
12:17 the masculine/feminine dilemma
24:52 discovery of lesbianism
38:02 the lesbian sub-identities
50:48 white vs bipoc lesbians
01:05:46 is lesbian a queer identity?
01:13:37 femmes don't get enough credit
01:25:11 do mascs get more dates?