Episodios

  • 068. Choose Intimacy Now and Unlock Power
    Mar 8 2025

    In this message, we discuss the importance and power of intimacy.

    Here is an outline related to the material:
    • Would you say your family of origin was/is intimate?
    • Do you know how to increase intimacy in your life?

    Self-Discovery:
    • We must choose to continually Grow & Learn
    • Our Stories need to be updated – for intimacy to grow
    • God reveals Himself to us …
    … and ourselves to us
    • His Light helps us get free to draw closer
    His Light shines on the good and bad things
    • Intimacy involves shared experience and understanding. If you don’t
    know yourself – if you don’t experience yourself – if you don’t like
    yourself, you cannot have intimacy w/ God / others
    • Discover Yourself – through Module 1 … do the module WITH GOD

    Disclosure
    • Self-Discovery without sharing is not intimacy
    • Learn to share who you are with God – shared and agreed, perspectives
    “Say it, Pray it” – the clearer, more precise and specific, the better!
    • Learn to share who you are – appropriately – with others
    Spouse, Family, Friends, Workmates
    “Say” and “Live” who you are

    Vulnerability
    • Transparency vs Vulnerability
    Vulnerability includes entrusting ourselves to others (risk)
    to experience response, care, and support
    Transparency can be honest sharing, but remains self-protecting
     It helps people understand you (or know about you), but it doesn’t
    increase intimacy

    Self-Control
    • We must take responsibility for our lives to aim and invest our lives [and
    change and grow]
    • With the help of the Holy Spirit, we break through strongholds and create
    new life patterns.
    • Lack of self-control can be passive, blaming others, or circumstances, or
    oneself for why we aren’t growing and investing.
    • In the Curriculum, this relates to Roles, Purpose, Rule of Life, Pruning
    and Strategic Planning

    APPLICATION:
    • Are you willing to take responsibility to develop intimate and loving
    relationships?
    • What are your next steps?

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    You can connect with Coach Tom at:
    https://greaterformation.com/
    Email: Tom@GreaterFormation.com


    P.S. ... If you are stalled in life, or particularly if you are in transition, here are two ways I can help you Get Clear, Get Focused and Be Fruitful!

    1. Grab a Free Copy of my "4 Key Steps to Clarity and Fruitfulness" Document. It's a Blueprint to help you move ahead. Click Here


    2. Work with me:
    I can help you Clarify, Plan, and take Bold Steps into Your Future. Book a Free 30-Minute Clarity and Fruitfulness Session with me: Click Here

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  • 067. Coach Tom Gets Interviewed by Rob Wentz on the Unstuck Movement Podcast
    Jan 29 2025

    Clarity and Calling - God has a Plan and Purpose for Your Life!

    In this interview, we explore:
    * "The Resources of Heaven"...
    * "The Power of Reflection" ...
    * "God's Desire that You Be You - No More and No Less" ...
    * "How You Can Understand Your Purpose"....
    * Being "Miraculously Responsible" ... and more!




    __________________________
    You can connect with Coach Tom at:
    https://greaterformation.com/
    Email: Tom@GreaterFormation.com


    P.S. ... If you are stalled in life, or particularly if you are in transition, here are two ways I can help you Get Clear, Get Focused and Be Fruitful!

    1. Grab a Free Copy of my "4 Key Steps to Clarity and Fruitfulness" Document. It's a Blueprint to help you move ahead. Click Here


    2. Work with me:
    I can help you Clarify, Plan, and take Bold Steps into Your Future. Book a Free 30-Minute Clarity and Fruitfulness Session with me: Click Here

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  • 066. An Interview With Dr. Ron Walborn: Beyond the Doorway...Deeper Life In Christ
    Aug 27 2024

    In this podcast, Coach Tom interviews another longtime friend, Ron Walborn.

    They discuss Ron’s faith pilgrimage, growing up as a pastor’s kid in western Pennsylvania, and experiencing an adult faith transformation in college.

    Ron describes his experience of being filled with the Holy Spirit and church planting in Northern California.

    Ron also shares how he has dealt with significant grief over the last year.

    Additionally, we discussed his love for teaching and equipping people to advance the Kingdom of God worldwide.
    …………………………………

    Dr. Ron Walborn is the Executive Director of Urban Initiatives for Asbury Theological Seminary in New York City. Previously, Ron served as a Professor of Pastoral Theology, Vice President and Dean of Alliance Theological Seminary and Nyack College (Alliance University) in New York City and San Juan Puerto Rico for 24 years.

    He has a B.A. in History from Nyack College, an M.Div. from Alliance Theological Seminary and a DMin from Fuller Theological Seminary.

    Dr. Walborn has planted and pastored churches in Connecticut and California. He has authored one book and numerous articles and chapters for other publications. He has lectured and spoken at churches, conferences and other events both nationally and internationally.

    Dr. Walborn was born and raised in Western Pennsylvania in a ministry-focused family. Ron and his wife, Dr. Wanda Walborn have four married adult children and six beautiful grandchildren.


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    You can connect with Coach Tom at:
    https://greaterformation.com/
    Email: Tom@GreaterFormation.com


    P.S. ... If you are stalled in life, or particularly if you are in transition, here are two ways I can help you Get Clear, Get Focused and Be Fruitful!

    1. Grab a Free Copy of my "4 Key Steps to Clarity and Fruitfulness" Document. It's a Blueprint to help you move ahead. Click Here


    2. Work with me:
    I can help you Clarify, Plan, and take Bold Steps into Your Future. Book a Free 30-Minute Clarity and Fruitfulness Session with me: Click Here

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  • 065. Make Jesus Your First Love and Main Obsession
    Jul 30 2024

    In this podcast, Coach Tom interviews friend, author, speaker and Kingdom trainer, Rob Reimer. You will hear of God's work of healing in his own life, and through him to others around the world.

    Some key concepts:

    • Finding God's fit for you will bring more fruit and more fun.
    • God wants access to your heart and soul...often that is achieved through pain.
    • There is no power without the cross. Impartation requires character and intimacy to sustain it. We must die to live.
    • Apart from God you can do many things, but you can do no Kingdom work without abiding.
    • Not every need is your assignment.
    • The secret to success is to find out what God wants of you and do it, no matter the personal cost...and there will be personal cost.

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    Dr. Rob Reimer’s passion is to see the Kingdom of God advance through spiritual renewal. Rob began Renewal International to assist pastors, leaders, and churches globally to equip the people of God to live in freedom in Christ, and to walk in the fullness and power of the Holy Spirit.

    Passionate about Jesus, personally transparent, and saturated in the Word, his books including Soul Care, River Dwellers, Spiritual Authority, Deep Faith, Pathways to the King, The Soul Care Leader, Calm in the Storm and The Tenderness of Jesus incorporate lessons God taught him over the years through life, marriage, and ministry. During conferences, Rob not only teaches these lessons, but provides activities for participants to begin working them into their lives. These transformative
    experiences challenge people to walk in the light with God and others and help people to practice hearing from God and accessing His power for ministry. Without Jesus, we have nothing to offer!

    In addition to his work with Renewal International, Dr. Reimer has served as Professor of Pastoral Theology at Alliance University in NY, NY, and as the founding and lead pastor of a church in New England.

    Explore more of Rob's resources, view his itinerary, or invite him to speak at
    www.renewalinternational.org

    __________________________
    You can connect with Coach Tom at:
    https://greaterformation.com/
    Email: Tom@GreaterFormation.com


    P.S. ... If you are stalled in life, or particularly if you are in transition, here are two ways I can help you Get Clear, Get Focused and Be Fruitful!

    1. Grab a Free Copy of my "4 Key Steps to Clarity and Fruitfulness" Document. It's a Blueprint to help you move ahead. Click Here


    2. Work with me:
    I can help you Clarify, Plan, and take Bold Steps into Your Future. Book a Free 30-Minute Clarity and Fruitfulness Session with me: Click Here

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  • 064. How to Press Beyond Your Current Limitations
    Jun 27 2024

    What do you think holds people back from personal growth and meaningful impact?

    In this podcast, Coach Tom surfaces some of the hindrances that keep people stuck.
    We also look at a key solution ... to Choose Courage!

    Learning how to develop a courageous lifestyle is a game-changer!

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    You can connect with Coach Tom at:
    https://greaterformation.com/
    Email: Tom@GreaterFormation.com


    P.S. ... If you are stalled in life, or particularly if you are in transition, here are two ways I can help you Get Clear, Get Focused and Be Fruitful!

    1. Grab a Free Copy of my "4 Key Steps to Clarity and Fruitfulness" Document. It's a Blueprint to help you move ahead. Click Here


    2. Work with me:
    I can help you Clarify, Plan, and take Bold Steps into Your Future. Book a Free 30-Minute Clarity and Fruitfulness Session with me: Click Here

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  • 063. An Interview With Doreen Steenland: "Transform Your Brain"
    Jun 7 2024

    In this podcast, Coach Tom chats with friend and "Self Revolution Coach", Doreen Steenland.

    In addition to hearing about Doreen's faith journey, you will be learn of some potentially life changing skills that can transform all your relationships and help you leave behind unnecessary drama!

    Key Concept: "There is a space between the circumstance and your reaction, and in that space lies freedom." ~ Viktor Frankl
    - Reconnect with God
    - Balance your nervous system
    - Take a breath ... experience the calm ... before you speak!
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    Doreen Steenland is a Registered Nurse, International Coaching Federation Certified Coach, and calls herself The Self Revolution Coach. She empowers people to rethink survival mode and begin a self-revolution as they navigate stress powerfully, and prioritize well-being using brain-based tools. Doreen’s diverse nursing experience and neuroscience training provide a unique approach to her coaching.

    As an author of the Amazon #1 Best Selling Book, Transform Your Brain, One Thought At A Time, Speaker, Coach, and Certified Professional facilitator, Doreen supports medical families, practices, and hospitals to disrupt patterns of behavior and communication that contribute to burnout so that they develop healthy work-life balance.

    You can reach Doreen at:

    • https://www.doreensteenland.com/
    • LivingFullLifeCoaching@gmail.com

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    You can connect with Coach Tom at:
    https://greaterformation.com/
    Email: Tom@GreaterFormation.com

    P.S. ... If you are stalled in life, or particularly if you are a life transition, here are three ways I can help you Get Clear, Get Focused and Be Fruitful!

    1. Grab a Free Copy of my "4 Key Steps to Clarity and Fruitfulness" Document. It's a Blueprint to help you move ahead. Click Here

    2. Join my FaceBook Group, "Greater Focus and Fruitfulness" for more teaching, training and community. Click Here

    3. Work with me:
    I can help you Clarify, Plan, and take Bold Steps into Your Future. Book a Free 45-Minute Strategy Session with me: Click Here

    __________________________
    You can connect with Coach Tom at:
    https://greaterformation.com/
    Email: Tom@GreaterFormation.com


    P.S. ... If you are stalled in life, or particularly if you are in transition, here are two ways I can help you Get Clear, Get Focused and Be Fruitful!

    1. Grab a Free Copy of my "4 Key Steps to Clarity and Fruitfulness" Document. It's a Blueprint to help you move ahead. Click Here


    2. Work with me:
    I can help you Clarify, Plan, and take Bold Steps into Your Future. Book a Free 30-Minute Clarity and Fruitfulness Session with me: Click Here

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  • 062. An Interview With Stephen Hill: Live An Integrated Life
    May 17 2024

    In this interview, Coach Tom chats with friend, business entrepreneur and adventure lover, Stephen Hill.

    You will hear how God has led and directed him in athletics/competition, career and service that fits.

    Some key concepts:

    • If you want to start a business, start one that solves a problem
    • Be comfortable with process/journey
    • Spontaneity with a plan...both are needed
    • Find a way to serve that fits. For Stephen this involves: Mental Discipline, Physical Challenge, Communication and Teamwork

    From Saint Irenaeus: "The glory of God is man fully alive"

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    Stephen is a Christian, adventure lover, and the founder and CEO of Recycle NOW. When he's not working he can be found skiing, rooting for his hometown team the Boston Celtics, training for his next endurance event, and actively participating in his local church.
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    You can connect with Coach Tom at:
    https://greaterformation.com/
    Email: Tom@GreaterFormation.com


    P.S. ... If you are stalled in life, or particularly if you are in transition, here are three ways I can help you Get Clear, Get Focused and Be Fruitful!

    1. Grab a Free Copy of my "4 Key Steps to Clarity and Fruitfulness" Document. It's a Blueprint to help you move ahead. Click Here

    2. Join my FaceBook Group, "Greater Focus and Fruitfulness" for more teaching, training and community. Click Here

    3. Work with me:
    I can help you Clarify, Plan, and take Bold Steps into Your Future. Book a Free 45-Minute Strategy Session with me: Click Here



    __________________________
    You can connect with Coach Tom at:
    https://greaterformation.com/
    Email: Tom@GreaterFormation.com


    P.S. ... If you are stalled in life, or particularly if you are in transition, here are two ways I can help you Get Clear, Get Focused and Be Fruitful!

    1. Grab a Free Copy of my "4 Key Steps to Clarity and Fruitfulness" Document. It's a Blueprint to help you move ahead. Click Here


    2. Work with me:
    I can help you Clarify, Plan, and take Bold Steps into Your Future. Book a Free 30-Minute Clarity and Fruitfulness Session with me: Click Here

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  • 060. An Interview With Maggie Baratto: From "A World of Trouble" Into the Father's Heart
    Apr 27 2024

    You will not want to miss this episode! Tom interviews fellow Kingdom Builder, coach and prophetic intercessor, Maggie Baratto.

    Hear her story as she moves from a teenager bored with God, through many troubles, and ultimately into intimacy with, and passion for, the Father.

    Key Concepts:

    • Our life circumstances reflect what God is doing on the earth
    • Look for what God is doing...We get to partner with the Father
    • The best we can offer those around us is to pursue our own destiny with the Father
    • Destiny = Identity in Motion
    • Thankfulness is the passageway into His presence

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    For over a decade, Maggie Baratto has inspired the body of Christ to step into new territory through her prophetic gifting and apostolic leadership. As a speaker, author, and transformational coach, she equips and mobilizes through revelatory instruction, and demonstrates the Father’s heart through her ministry, Father’s Heart Healing Ministries and business, Thrive Leadership Academy.

    Blessings,
    Maggie Baratto
    Director for Father's Heart Healing Ministries

    IAHR National Director for Healing Rooms Canada

    Father's Heart Healing Ministries
    www.fhhm.org
    FHHM Facebook
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    You can connect with Coach Tom at:
    https://greaterformation.com/
    Email: Tom@GreaterFormation.com

    P.S. ... If you are stalled in life, or particularly if you are a life transition, here are three ways I can help you Get Clear, Get Focused and Be Fruitful!

    1. Grab a Free Copy of my "4 Key Steps to Clarity and Fruitfulness" Document. It's a Blueprint to help you move ahead. Click Here

    2. Join my FaceBook Group, "Greater Focus and Fruitfulness" for more teaching, training and community. Click Here

    3. Work with me:
    I can help you Clarify, Plan, and take Bold Steps into Your Future. Book a Free 45-Minute Strategy Session with me: Click Here

    __________________________
    You can connect with Coach Tom at:
    https://greaterformation.com/
    Email: Tom@GreaterFormation.com


    P.S. ... If you are stalled in life, or particularly if you are in transition, here are two ways I can help you Get Clear, Get Focused and Be Fruitful!

    1. Grab a Free Copy of my "4 Key Steps to Clarity and Fruitfulness" Document. It's a Blueprint to help you move ahead. Click Here


    2. Work with me:
    I can help you Clarify, Plan, and take Bold Steps into Your Future. Book a Free 30-Minute Clarity and Fruitfulness Session with me: Click Here

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    48 m