Episode 330: The Unexpected Power of Missing The Goal

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🎙️ Episode Summary:

In this episode, Katy Ursta shares her personal journey of striving for goals and the lessons learned from her family, particularly her children's perspective on success and failure. She emphasizes the importance of detaching self-worth from outcomes, modeling resilience for future generations, and celebrating the process of growth rather than just the end results. Katy provides actionable tips for listeners to reflect on their goals and embrace the journey of personal development.

✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• It's important to detach your self-worth from the outcome of your goals.
• Children observe and learn from how we handle our successes and failures.
• The process of working towards goals is often more valuable than the goals themselves.
• Resilience is key; it's okay to miss goals as long as you keep trying.
• Modeling grace in the face of setbacks teaches children valuable life lessons.
• Celebrating small wins and the journey can lead to greater joy in achieving goals.
• Joyful engagement in the process can lead to better outcomes.
• It's essential to reflect on personal growth rather than just achievements.

💡 Episode Highlights & Time Stamps:

• 00:00 Introduction to Summer Goals and Challenges
• 03:54 Lessons from Family: The Importance of Perspective
• 06:45 Detaching Self-Worth from Outcomes
• 11:23 Modeling Resilience for Future Generations
• 14:44 Celebrating the Process Over the Prize

📌 Resources & Links Mentioned:

Free Resource: (re)RISE Confidently Workbook

Direct Sales Done Right Book and Workbook

👥 Connect with Katy:

• Instagram: @katywritescontent
• Website: www.katyursta.com

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