Ep008: Larry Hagner

In this episode, Andrew Rose engages in a deep conversation with Larry Hackman, founder of The Dad Edge, discussing the intricacies of fatherhood, relationships, and personal development. They explore the three basic needs in relationships, the five dials of fatherhood, effective communication strategies, and the importance of setting boundaries to prioritize family time. Larry shares insights on how to foster emotional connections and the significance of small gestures, like a six-second hug, in strengthening relationships.

Takeaways

The Dad Edge was founded from a place of personal struggle.

Understanding basic needs in relationships is crucial for connection.

Men often feel they are never giving 100% to anyone.

Appreciation is a key need for men in relationships.

The five dials represent different aspects of being a father and husband.

Effective communication involves validating emotions rather than jumping to solutions.

Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining family time.

Daily rituals can help deepen connections with family members.

Small gestures can have a significant impact on relationships.

Continuous learning and coaching are vital for personal growth.

Sound Bites

"I started the Dad Edge not because I knew everything."

"A wife's three basic needs are to feel seen, heard and safe."

"Men work really, really hard, you know."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Larry Hackman and The Dad Edge

02:50 Understanding the Three Basic Needs in Relationships

06:02 Exploring the Five Dials of Fatherhood

11:56 Effective Communication with Family

21:14 Establishing Boundaries and Prioritizing Family Time

34:06 The Importance of Connection: Six-Second Rule