Registered psychologist, longtime activist and Edmonton icon Liz Massiah chats with Trudy and Lisa about helping friends & community members talk about trauma, the gay and lesbian community in Edmonton in the 80s, where 2SLGBTQ+ rights are today — and what allies can do to defend the community.

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--From This Episode--

1. Rule, Jane. (1985) A Hot-Eyed Moderate. Naiad Pr. Tallahassee, USA.

• (00:32) - Highlighting New Voices
• (07:52) - Introducing Liz Massaiah
• (11:51) - Invisibility and Women Over 50
• (16:48) - Aging in the Lesbian Community
• (21:17) - Politics is Like Housework
• (24:08) - Allies All Around Us
• (28:45) - Through Uncertainty to New Possibilities
• (30:18) - Supporting Traumatized People
• (33:52) - Coming Out and the Trauma of the Closet
• (40:01) - Be Curious, Not Judgemental

--Credits--

Hosted by Trudy Callaghan and Lisa Austin

Produced by Odvod Media

Audio Engineering by Steve Glen

Original music by Darrin Hagen

Boundaries make nourishing relationships possible — regardless of what our guilty feelings might tell us when we set those boundaries. Our guest for part two of this conversation, Registered Psychologist Janelle Drisner, helps us grapple with the tension between human limitations and unconditional love. This time, Janelle dives deeper into the complexities and limitations of relationships, how we show up for each other and the necessary, uncomfortable work of articulating our boundaries — in pursuit of more authentic relationships.

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--From This Episode--

Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People: Avoid Emotional Traps, Stand Up for Your Self, and Transform Your Relationships as an Adult Child of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson

• (00:53) - - With Every No, There Is A Yes
• (04:11) - - Communicating Your Boundaries
• (11:40) - - Challenging Cultural Scripts
• (14:49) - - Anger Is A Source Of Courage
• (17:42) - - Apology Is Only The Beginning Of Repair
• (22:15) - - Relationships With Adult Children
• (27:43) - - Wrestling With The Roles We’re Given
• (31:29) - - Unconditional Love And Being Human

Hosted by Trudy Callaghan and Lisa Austin

Produced by Odvod Media

Audio Engineering by Steve Glen

Original music by Darrin Hagen

Boundaries tell us where I end and you begin, says our guest, Registered Psychologist Janelle Drisner. But what is a boundary really? Should we have expectations in relationships? And how do you cultivate your relationship with yourself?

Trudy and Lisa sit down with Janelle, for the first of a two part episode to answer — or at least begin to understand — these questions and more. Janelle takes us beyond psychological buzzwords into a truly fascinating conversation that challenges us all to think about relationships in new ways.

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• (00:32) - - Introducing Janelle Drisner
• (02:03) - - What Are Boundaries?
• (08:13) - - Respect
• (11:39) - - Expectations vs Needs
• (14:42) - - Diversifying Our Supports
• (20:55) - - Crones Do Not Avert Their Eyes
• (23:39) - - Dialoguing with Ourselves
• (26:44) - - Cultivating a Rich Inner Life

--Credits--

Hosted by Trudy Callaghan and Lisa Austin

Produced by Odvod Media

Audio Engineering by Steve Glen

Original music by Darrin Hagen