In this episode, Paolo and Paul hit the road to sit down with Jenny Molloy, the best-selling author of Hackney Child and This Isn’t Love.

In the first part of a two-episode special, we talk about the events detailed in Hackney Child. At just nine years old, Jenny, along with her two brothers, went to the Stoke Newington police station and asked to be taken into care after an angry mob attacked their family home. The mob’s fury was sparked by the revelation that Jenny’s mother had been working as a prostitute, and one of her clients was a neighbour’s husband.

Although Jenny escaped the neglect of her alcoholic parents and the severe poverty they faced, life in care still brought its own set of challenges. However, as Jenny shares, the caring staff and social workers who saw something good in her became her saviours during this turbulent time.

This conversation is one of resilience, survival, and the joy found in small moments of happiness.

For more information:
Click on the link to buy Jenny's books.
Follow Jenny on Instagram.

Credits:
Produced by Simon Wady
Filmed by Adrian Tanner, Many Hands Productions
Theme music by Michael Head and the Red Elastic Band

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This week, Paolo and Paul sit down with Mark Riddell MBE, the government’s National Adviser for Care Leavers, for a deeply personal conversation about how his time in the Scottish care system shapes his work to improve the lives of young people transitioning out of care.

From his childhood with an alcoholic father and the painful loss of his mother, Mark shares the emotional story that led him into the care system. A love for music and Mod culture provided some escape, but he ultimately succumbed to peer pressure and became involved in glue-sniffing.

He pushed his care staff to their breaking point, and after a chaotic weekend that nearly landed him in jail, he was ready to be moved to yet another home. But when the care manager arrived, instead of sending him away, he told Mark, “This is your home, and you’re staying. We’ll just replace the windows and doors.”

That moment became a turning point for Mark.

As Mark says: "Even for a normal 16-year-old, to face the world on their own at such an age is hard and terrifying and it is much worse for care leaver children. The feeling of abandonment, low self-esteem and trust issues make them more likely to take the wrong path leading to self-destruction." Out of eight kids in one of the care homes Mark stayed at only four are still alive. This is why he felt the system had to change.

What follows is a remarkable journey of self-discovery, via Sylvester Stallone – and now meeting the original Cappuccino Kid – and how this led him to become a passionate advocate for change, and why he’s determined to prevent the same struggles from impacting future generations of care leavers.

So, order a cappuccino, sit back and enjoy our latest episode. It is a classic reminder that we all shine on.

For more information:

• Follow the links to buy Mark’s books The Cornflake Kid and The Cappuccino Kid.
• Follow Mark on X

Produced by Simon Wady.
Recorded at the Tileyard Studios, with thanks to Andres Albert.
Theme music by Michael Head and the Red Elastic Band.

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In this episode of But We All Shine On, hosts Paolo and Paul invite you to join them at De Amicis as they reflect on the first month of the show.

With their signature blend of honesty, humour, and insight, they look back on their conversations with two incredible guests: Dr Jim Goddard and Pauline Black.

Paolo and Paul dive deep into the themes that emerged from these interviews, touching on issues of identity, race, and acceptance - and Paul's inability to have a Bowie haircut. They discuss how these themes have shaped their own lives and explore the powerful moments from the first two episodes that resonated with them.

And yes, Skoggies shoes make another appearance – because you can’t beat a pair of Skoggies!

So, grab a seat at the table and join Paolo and Paul as they continue to talk about what it means to shine on.

Join the conversation! Email your thoughts, reflections, or questions to: contact@butweallshineon.com.

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Due to technical issues on the day, we apologise for the camerawork and audio quality not meeting our usual standards during the first half of the podcast.

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In episode three, Paolo and Paul talk to Pauline Black, the iconic lead singer of Two-Tone legends The Selecter.

Pauline was born on October 3, 1953, the daughter of a Nigerian man. As a baby, she was adopted by a white family in Romford, Essex.

In this enthralling and moving interview, Pauline talks about the loneliness of being adopted and growing up mixed-race in a predominantly white environment. She shares the difficulty of not having role models, as well as the frustration of not having the vocabulary to express her feelings at the time.

By the 1970s, Pauline embraced her Black identity, even though it clashed with her mother's expectations. She later changed her surname to "Black," a radical choice that highlighted her racial identity. As lead singer of The Selecter, she became a prominent figure in the 2-Tone ska movement, standing out as one of the few Black women in the genre.

Pauline eventually traced her birth mother in her 40s, discovering a connection to her Nigerian father and a reunion with her birth mother in Australia. In her journey of self-discovery, she stresses the importance of supporting adopted children with resources and connections to their heritage.

Tune in to hear more about Pauline's powerful story of identity, adoption, class, race, and finding her place in the world through music.

More information

• Buy Pauline's autobiography.
• Find out more about The Selecter here.
• Pauline Black: A 2-Tone Story (documentary film).

Produced by Simon Wady.
Recorded at the Tileyard Studios, with thanks to Andres Albert.
Theme music by Michael Head and the Red Elastic Band.
"Human Algebra" by The Selecter was used with the kind permission of DMF Music.

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In episode two of But We All Shine On, Paolo Hewitt and Paul Anderson-Walsh talk to Dr Jim Goddard, Chair of the Care Leavers Association.

Jim Goddard is an expert on the care system and currently serves as the Chair of The Care Leavers Association. Jim and his brother spent their childhood in children’s homes in Liverpool and Birkenhead, before moving into a family group home that was meant to replicate family life but was marred by a “randomly violent” care worker.

Through it all, Jim remained academically successful, enjoying the sanctuary of libraries, and eventually going on to university — a rare achievement for someone from the care system at the time. Jim has also become a historian of the care experience and is working on a book about the history of the care system since 1945.

As Chair of The Care Leavers Association, Jim has been involved in campaigning for the rights of care leavers, including lobbying the government for improvements to the care system and helping individuals access their care files. His dedication to advocating for the welfare and well-being of care leavers continues to make a significant impact.

In a wide-ranging and enthralling conversation, Jim talks about his journey through the care system, the history of care, his academic success, and his work for The Care Leavers Association helping people access their care files.

For more information about accessing your care files: https://www.careleavers.com/what-we-d...

For more information on The Care Leavers Association: https://www.careleavers.com/

Follow Dr Jim Goddard on X: https://x.com/JimGoddard1

With thanks to Andres Albert at Tileyard Studios, Kings Cross.

Theme music by Michael Head and the Red Elastic Band.

May we all shine on.

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In But We All Shine On, we dive deep into the powerful stories of resilience and triumph from individuals who grew up in the care system and went on to achieve remarkable success.

Hosted by Paolo Hewitt and Paul Anderson-Walsh, this podcast offers a rare and intimate look into the lives of extraordinary guests who have defied the odds across business, entertainment, sports, the arts, social care, politics, and more.

Through candid and heartfelt conversations, we explore how these individuals turned their struggles into strength, navigating the unique challenges of growing up in care with passion, determination, and unwavering courage. This podcast serves as a celebration of the human spirit, showing that even in the face of adversity, greatness can emerge.

Unlike the typical narratives focused on the darker aspects of the care system, But We All Shine On highlights the power of resilience and the transformative potential within all of us. Tune in to hear an inspiring story that proves anything is possible with the right mindset and heart.

In episode one, we start our journey with Paolo and Paul discussing their own experiences of care.

Don't forget to subscribe and catch all episodes of But We All Shine On – where stories of hope, perseverance, and success come to light.

Produced by Simon Wady.

Theme music by Michael Head and the Red Elastic Band.

With thanks to Marco and all at De Amicis, Notting Hill.

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