488 | Nontransactable Goods

The Minimalists are joined by Dr. Orion Taraban to talk about loyalty, respect, grace, love, friendship, forgiveness, and other nontransactable goods.Discussed in this episode:How do I stop clinging to the good relationship memories from the past if they make me feel miserable now? (2:11)When is loyalty no longer worth it? (23:37)Listener tip: Sensory sensitivity is linked to overstimulation. (56:16)Is honesty a nontransactable good? (59:04)What are Dr. Taraban's insights on sensory processing disorders? (1:00:34)When is emotional abuse grounds to leave a relationship? (1:07:24)Should I let go of my inconsiderate and egocentric friends? (1:24:34)Is it ever okay to keep a secret from my significant other? (1:46:18)Does it make sense to stay in a miserable marriage for the kids? (2:20:45)What are the downsides of leaving your valuable hoard to the next generation to deal with? (2:34:12)Talkaboutable: Loyalty in the movie The Town. (2:54:31)Added Value: An unreleased song about emotional insecurity after a relationship. (3:05:10)Added Value: Ryan StoryBook: Conflict is Not AbuseBook: Emotional ClutterBook: Everything That RemainsBook: The Evolution of DesireBook: Love People, Use ThingsBook: The Untethered SoulBook: The Value of OthersBook: The War of ArtCounseling: Clutter CounselingEvent: Sunday SymposiumGame: Minimalism GamePodcast: Conflict FrequenciesPodcast: Dating ClutterWatch: “Love Like the Sun”Watch: “Staying for the Kids”Watch: “The Town”Watch: “Truth vs. Utility”Website: Dr. Orion TarabanYouTube: Psych HacksRecorded at Earthing Studios. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.