#15: The "Instant" Spark In Dating - How It Can Make You Settle For Less, Help You Understand Past Trauma & The Difference Between Feelings Numb & Genuinely Feelings No Connection

"The spark", "instant chemistry", "butterflies", these are the markers that so many of us still mistakenly use in dating, when deciding how much we invest in someone.

In this episode, I discuss what those feelings can actually mean (spoiler, they aren't always to do with attraction!), I share my personal experiences with these feelings, and how they led me in to anxious relationships over healthy, happy and fulfilling ones.

I also share how to listen to your gut, and the difference between feeling numb and genuinely feeling no connection to someone new.

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