When We Fell Apart

A Novel

De: Soon Wiley

Narrado por: Daniel K. Isaac, Shannon Tyo

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A profoundly moving and suspenseful drama that untangles the complicated ties that bind families together—or break them apart—as a young Korean American man’s search for answers about his girlfriend’s mysterious death becomes a soul-searching journey into his own bi-cultural identity

When the Seoul police inform Min that his girlfriend Yu-jin has committed suicide, he’s sure it can't be true. She was successful, ambitious, happy, just on the cusp of graduating from university and claiming the future she’d always dreamed of.

Min, on the other hand, born to an American father and Korean mother, has never felt quite the same certainty as Yu-jin about his life’s path. After growing up in California, where he always felt “too Korean” to fit in, he’s moved to Seoul in the hope that exploring his Korean heritage will help him find a sense of purpose. And when he meets Yu-jin, little does he know that their carefree relationship will set off a chain of events with tragic consequences for them both.

Devastated by Yu-jin’s death, Min throws himself into finding out why she could have secretly wanted to die. Or did she? With a controlling and powerful government official father, and a fraught friendship with her alluring and destructive roommate So-ra, Yu-jin’s life was much more complex than she chose to reveal to Min. And the more he learns about her, the more he begins to doubt he ever really knew her at all.

As Yu-jin’s story—a fraught exploration of selfhood, coming-of-age, and family expectations—collides with Min’s, the result is an engrossing thriller that poses powerful, urgent questions about cultural identity, family bonds, secrets, and what it truly means to belong.

"Transportive and poignant."—Susie Yang

"Spellbinding."—Jamie Ford

"A young writer to watch."—Jess Walter

"Unforgettable."—Abi Daré

"The most compelling debut novel I've read in years."—Alexander Chee

"Heart-stopping and exquisitely plotted."—Patricia Engel

"Will stay with me for a long time."—Angie Kim

"Gorgeous."—Julia Phillips

©2022 Soon Wiley (P)2022 Penguin Audio

Reseñas de la Crítica

"Wiley is a master of structure and pacing, with a gift for ending chapters at their most gripping moments, which gives this quiet, mournful novel the page-turning quality of a thriller. Yet what makes When We Fell Apart such a must-read is its portrayal of the extraordinary pressure faced by young people in Korea to conform and perform."
—The Washington Post

"In his suspenseful debut . . . Soon Wiley navigates two different points of view on a young woman’s mysterious suicide . . . That we know her tragic conclusion doesn’t make [Yu-jin's] past any less urgent than Min’s quest in the present. This is a story about young people constrained in their self-development, one by his own internal pressures, the other by social expectations that are at odds with her true desires." —The New York Times Book Review

"Death arrives quickly and triggers a deepening mystery in When We Fell Apart, the celebrated debut novel of Soon Wiley. . . . Wiley tells parallel stories in alternating, brief chapters—Min's and Yu-jin's, one a roller-coaster of suspense and suspicion, the other a gradual awakening . . . But there are secrets held and kept, secrets that define and deepen characters. There are moments here that beg for the movie rights to be signed: a father-daughter fishing trip where lessons are taught gently but must be followed rigidly; a moment on a dormant driving range when a woman claims her voice for the first time; and a betrayal that leads to one character's destruction. . . . [And] there is another character, one that Wiley lays out just as carefully as he does his young lovers. It is Korea, a nation that has seen conquerors bent on its destruction, on erasing its ambitions."
—USA Today

Makes you think

I liked the themes here - impacts of parenting on children, all the things we hide, how we are seen and see ourselves, expectations and honesty. Great book.

Excellent read

Soon Wiley takes the reader on the most incredible journey that leaves you feeling such empathy towards the main character of Yu-Jin. Do not miss this story of true love and the fight that can exist to be able to even contemplate love.

O.K. story but took a long time to get there

Way touch detail about everything. Felt like it dragged on. Interesting story though. Very different.

Beautiful first novel

Wonderful writing! This beautiful first novel by Soon Wiley is sure to stay with you for a long time. Lovely narration.

Cultural story masquerading as a murder mystery

I was moved by “When We Fell Apart”. I listened to the audio, narrated by Daniel K Isaac and Shannon Tyo, and written by Soon Wiley.

The story is told from two narrators, Min, a American Korean man whose mother is Korean and father is American. We learn from Min that he never felt he belonged anywhere in the USA. He was too Korean to be American. He decided to go to Korea as a young adult to see if he could find identity in his Korean roots. Author Soon Wiley has a similar background to his character, Min. Wiley was raised in Nyack, NY and endured similar inner conflict as he gave his character, Min. Min’s ruminations about his biracial identity is heart-rending.

The second narrator, in first person narration, is Yu-jin, a timid college coed who came to Seoul to study at Ewha, an elite woman’s university. Yu-jin is an obedient daughter of the Korean National Minister of Defense. Yu-jin was a model high school student, solely concentrating on her studies at the expense of her personal life. She came to Seoul to find herself, her true passion.

We learn early in the story that Yu-jin dies, allegedly by suicide. Min was dating her at the time and found it difficult to believe that she would do that. Slowly, through both their alternating chapters, we learn what happened.

Through Yu-jin’s chapters, the reader learns of her evolving friendship with her roommate, So-ra, a dance major and feminist. Yu-jin is consumed by her need to become independent of her controlling family.

There is much Korean culture and expectations in this story. Author Wiley wrote Yu-jin’s character so well that I felt her pressure. I found it interesting to note the differences in Korean culture and American cultures with respect to young adults obeying their parents. Through Min’s chapters, Wiley shows the difficulty that mixed raced young adults find difficulty in belonging. In Korea Min is not accepted as Korean. In America, he’s not accepted as American.

This is a coming-of-age story masquerading as murder mystery with racial undertones. Min does not believe Yu-jin died by suicide. Through the unraveling of the days leading up to Yu-jin’s death, the reader learns of the secrets held by Yu-jin, and the tremendous pressure she was under.

Wiley analyzes the cultural differences in expectations of America and Korea. He examines the pain of emotional growth of young adults. The murder mystery is the bones of the story, but the meat is pressure of expectations.

Talented Writer

The book kept my attention, the author’s writing style is appealing, he draws you in to the story and makes you care about the characters and what is happening to them. I enjoyed listening to his at times mesmerizing descriptions of surroundings, he definitely has a way with words, painting lovely visuals. I liked the story as it drew me in, with its mystery and character studies. I liked the way the mystery peaked my interest throughout most of the book. The narrators did a nice job. The story itself lost interest for me as it progressed, if I were an editor I would have tightened it a bit, with less angsty introspection, and a deeper development of the relationship between the two main characters to support the storyline - minor issues, though, compared to the writer’s overall talent. I look forward to reading more by him.

Stunning and thrilling

A thrilling and engaging mystery that has the best elements of the genre, but also offers something entirely new through a cast of characters I’ve been waiting a long time to encounter in fiction. As a bi-racial Korean American, listening to Min’s story made me realize it was the first novel that featured a character whose interior life spoke to aspects of my own that I’ve never seen represented in fiction, or any media for that matter. Regardless of your background though, the humanity of the characters is what makes this story a marvel. A must read/listen.

Excellent debut novel

I greatly enjoyed this book. It's a story about trying to belong, to the lengths we go to find our place, and the lengths we can go to in order to try and get out of lives that we don't want to live. Ultimately, a very sad book, but well executed, and well narrated.

Haunting

This is a beautiful, sad, haunting story. I thought it was going to be a mystery/thriller but it was so much more. Exquisite writing that wasn’t flowery or overblown but really brought the characters to life.