Surviving Sibling Loss

The Invisible Thread That Connects Us Through Life and Death

De: Dawn Diraimondo PsyD

Narrado por: Lynnda Nelson

When author Dawn DiRaimondo, PsyD, lost her brother in 2004, she found only one book on sibling loss. So, she wrote the book she wished she had then.

Surviving Sibling Loss: The Invisible Thread That Connects Us Through Life and Death is the gold standard of grief books, helping not only people who are grieving but also their therapists, partners, and friends better support their loved ones. The chapters are deliberately short and full of easy-to-find resources, and the book can be listened to again and again. This structure aids those who are struggling, who fatigue and lose focus easily under the weight of their grief.

Dr. DiRaimondo is a clinical psychologist whose specialties include working with clients who have experienced significant loss, including the loss of children, siblings, spouses, grandchildren, and young parents. Surviving Sibling Loss interweaves her personal and professional experience and knowledge of bereavement, as well as the perspectives of fourteen individuals she interviewed who also lost siblings.

©2020 Dawn DiRaimondo, Psy.D. (P)2023 Dawn DiRaimondo, Psy.D.

Extremely helpful

Having just lost my older brother unexpectedly, trying to grieve something so unimaginable that words can’t truly describe. This book does an excellent job of expressing much of the pain and providing resources in a situation that feels so overlooked by society. Going to be listening over and over again.

Great book for sibling grievers

I lost my brother tragically and unexpectedly in September. I have purchased a few books on sibling loss and grief in general, but this is the first book I couldn’t put down and actually finished. If you’ve lost your sibling or are living with a significant loss, I highly recommend it.

My brother and best friend died suddenly

This book helped me so much, that I read it 5 times. It helped me realize that what I though was craziness was just normal grieving.

Great book on sibling loss & grief

Very warm and relatable book that honors both the unique and universal aspects of sibling loss and the grief process. The personal stories are touching and help normalize the unique difficulties often attached to such losses, while also being inspirational. The book also provides many practical suggestions that assist people to actively and meaningfully deal with their grief.

Relatable!

Love this quick & easy read. Great job in sharing both personal & professional perspectives on the loss of a sibling.
✔️- all the topics & chapters were just what I needed.
Fresh from the loss of my brother ( 40 days) this book was perfect in helping me “ feel” his loss.
✔️- Helped me navigate my questions on death, missed memories & what now?
✔️- I also enjoyed the tips on what to say & what not to say to someone.

I feel closer to my brother after his death and this book made that ok, removed the weirdness to that.

Time well spent! 🙌

The fact that this addresses grieving the loss of siblings, which is difficult to find.

I liked that it was written by a psychologist who actually went through the process when she lost her brother. She was able to look at it both from a sister perspective as well as a professional in behavioral health.
I am 72 and lost my only sis one year ago after she turned 80. She was my best friend, my sister, and a mother figure. And she was my last living relative from my family of origin. We were very close. she knew more about me than I did. It's been a difficult time because my husband of 45 years then passed away 3 months after she did, 2 days before Christmas.
This book touched on nearly everything I was feeling and experienced through this complicated grieving process. It validated that I'm okay even though, at times, I feel like I'm not.
This book also is easy to read and not overly technical. It's practical.

Much needed book

Everything this author said was a feeling that I have. I just lost my only sibling, my brother Chris, to ALS. I have had every emotion possible and I feel very validated by this author, knowing that they are all normal and expected! I felt very seen, heard and understood. If you’ve lost a sibling, this is an invaluable source for you.

So refreshing

Struggled to finish because it really hit home! What a beautiful family and story. I wish them all well. I identified with most of this story. Just beautiful!

Relatable!

I haven’t listened/read to many books about loss, because it’s been so hard to find ones that talk about sibling loss. However, I will say that this is one that pulled from not only the author’s personal experience, but those of other siblings; which in turn made it relatable in such a broad way. It was a quick listen & it was helpful to get validation that things I have experienced, felt & desired over the past 5 years are normal.

Not worth the read - better books out there.

Terrible. Not worth the read. Very surface level, Christian, and toxic positivity. Lots of oversimplified advice. Also, frequently recommends having kids to not feel sad.