Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist

How to End the Drama and Get On with Life

De: Margalis Fjelstad

Narrado por: Senn Annis

People with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorders are master manipulators; Caretakers fall for them every time. This book helps Caretakers break the cycle and puts them on a new path of personal freedom, discovery, and self-awareness, through the use of real stories and practical suggestions from a seasoned therapist.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2022 Margalis Fjelstad (P)2022 Rowman & Littlefield

A Godsend!

This book does not mince words. It may be a shock to discover how you contribute to being a caretaker. A must for anyone who thinks or knows they are in this position.

Gold for anyone with narcissistic/BPD in their life

This is gold

It was traumatizing for me when I first tried to read it. I don’t know why, but I put it down & didn’t continue reading until 2 years later.

I am glad I got through it. It explained everything about the BPD/narcs in my life as if the author knew my exact story & met everyone. It was scary accurate.

Finally & thankfully the author gives concrete steps to get out of the situations.

Wish me luck as I go through them. I will need to reread this a few times to take in everything. Especially the recovery chapters.

If you have people like this in your life; Read this book. I’ve read 3-4 other books & nothing beats this one so far.


Hopefully you don’t react like I did.

Good luck. Hopefully this helps you live the life you want.

life changing

An unexpected help, for someone that has lived with a borderline parent like me its been a way of understanding myself and my familly dinamics

Essential reading for any relationship

Well, thought out and diagrammed from a professional that has obvious experience in the area. This is both helpful for anyone who might be struggling in a relationship with family, partner or friends. It can also be helpful for any professional, looking to increase their knowledge in order to help support others in this area. Inside you will find a clearly mapped out and well structured explanation and recommendation with helpful paradigms on how to address behaviors both in yourself, and in response to others.

Ive read and listened so many times...

This is a great book that I resort back to often to understand and accept people as they are & keep balance in all my relationships

Pragmatic-empowering

Great suggestions.
Easy to relate to the descriptions of being a caregiver.
Didn’t use excessive stories and examples about other people.
Seemed pretty comprehensive….good info about the stages we go through.

Freedom! Wish I had found this sooner.

Extremely insightful and cheaper than a therapist. I found the suggestions in the book to be practical and helpful. Now to use them in real life…

Read and re-read

Exactly what I needed. I will read this repeatedly as needed to cope effectively with the hard times.

Amazing!

If there’s someone in your life with BPD or NPD, this book is for you! It’s very thorough and comprehensive. My only issue is that the narrator sounds like a robot.

Educational, confirming, and motivating

skipped the 1st 2 chapters ... finished the book and ended up loving it! I'll definitely read the chapters I had skipped. this book is educational, confirming and motivating!