Modern Friendship

How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections

De: Anna Goldfarb

Narrado por: Anna Goldfarb

From the “Friendship Explainer,” a definitive step-by-step guide to understanding the fundamental mechanics of friendship

Modern friendships can be painfully ambiguous. But they don’t have to be. Journalist Anna Goldfarb has your back. “It’s understandable if your friendships are floundering. You’re up against historically new forces that we, as a culture, have no precedent for navigating,” she says. With Modern Friendship, Anna shares a manual for understanding what is pushing our friendships to the brink and provides actionable advice for forming authentic, enduring connections today.

It’s never been easier to shed friendships, which is precisely why we need a new approach to keeping them strong. Anna argues that we need to update our approach to friendships in a way that accounts for the hyper-fluid society we live in. The key to forming a lasting bond is what Anna calls “Wholehearted Friendship”—proven strategies to enhance enthusiastic connection.

Blending keen insights, cutting-edge social research, and intuitive practical tools, she invites you to explore:

• Why modern friendships are so ambiguous—and how to get clarity

• How desire influences friend selection, why friendships fail, and how to hone your friendship intuition

• Mattering to others—establishing boundaries, being flexible, having fun, and setting up your friendships for success

• Tools for the tough times—exercises, prompts, scripts, and advice on keeping friendships active even when life gets hectic

• Practicing Wholehearted Friendship—how to be caring, curious, appreciative, and supportive to a friend in any situation

• Trying a 14-day Friendship Cleanse—two weeks of actionable advice to clarify your wishes in friendship and strengthen your connections, both old and new

Grasping the mechanics of friendships will liberate you from the prison of self-doubt. “Your friendships are precious. They’re vital. They matter. So let’s understand, cultivate, and harness their incredible power,” says Anna. With Modern Friendship, you’ll discover how to be a more self-assured and empowered friend to the most meaningful people in your life. Let Anna show you how.

©2024 Anna Goldfarb (P)2024 Sounds True

Reseñas de la Crítica

“When Anna Goldfarb writes, she makes you feel as if you’re her dearest friend. You’ll laugh, you’ll be charmed, and you’ll learn so much. In the confusing world of friendship, Modern Friendship is the compass we all need. Read it, and your friends will be thankful you did.”—Marisa G. Franco, PhD, New York Times bestselling author of Platonic

“Light bulb after light bulb appeared over my head as I read Anna Goldfarb’s wise and funny Modern Friendship. For all of us who feel like our friendships are too few, far-flung, or flatlined, her counsel is a decoder ring for deeper, closer relationships. This stuff really works, so do yourself—and your social life—a favor and read this book cover to cover.”—Ellen Hendriksen, PhD, author of How to Be Yourself

“Modern Friendship is poignant, fun, thought provoking, and inspiring. Through a compelling blend of research, real-life anecdotes, and practical advice, Anna Goldfarb provides invaluable insights on the evolving dynamics that define our friendships. Every single one of us would benefit from reading this book and engaging in friend-making with more intention.”—Shasta Nelson, author of Friendships Don’t Just Happen!, Frientimacy, and The Business of Friendship

Wish there was a pdf included

This book had some good suggestions and exercises but there is no pdf included. So the only way to do the exercises is to listen carefully and take notes. I enjoyed listening to the author narrate her book...but I couldn't easily use it because it was an audiobook. I hate to have to buy the hardcover book just to see the exercises or lists written out.

Absolutely nothing. I regret buying the book: it’s void of value.

It’s such an important aspect of our life, we crave the knowledge and tools to become better friends and to feel connected. Well, the author is sharing a series of soft anecdotes and academic principles “light”. Ugh, what a disappointment!