When Forgiving Doesn't Mean Forgetting | Ep #198

Today we take a look at the complex relationship between forgiveness and forgetting, emphasizing that true forgiveness does not require the erasure of painful memories. I'll discuss the importance of recognizing and processing emotions through the body, the necessity of setting boundaries, and the ongoing journey of forgiveness as a continual practice.

Key Takeaways:

• Forgiveness does not mean forgetting; it means letting go of emotional baggage.
• Our bodies hold wisdom about what needs to be processed and healed.
• Forgiveness is an internal process that requires self-awareness and honesty.
• Remembering can be protective and wise, helping us avoid harmful patterns.
• Setting boundaries is essential in the healing process after betrayal.
• Integration of past experiences is crucial for personal growth and resilience.
• Forgiveness is a continual practice, not a one-time event.
• Emotional regulation is key to having difficult conversations about past hurts.
• We must honor our feelings and allow ourselves to process them fully.
• Healing involves both the mind and body working together.

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